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Dealing with Debt and Depression.

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  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    Lucy1982 wrote: »
    The same girl also dyed her hair bright pink.... which I think says it all.

    I find that can be taken both ways. First is "Look at me! Look at me!" and the other is "Look at my hair and not me!" I've seen piercings used to keep people away as well.
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."
    OMD 'Julia's Song'
  • Lucy1982_2
    Lucy1982_2 Posts: 4,611 Forumite
    ZTD wrote: »
    I find that can be taken both ways. First is "Look at me! Look at me!" and the other is "Look at my hair and not me!" I've seen piercings used to keep people away as well.

    Very true. Some of the nices people I have ever met have some very 'interesting' tattoos and piercings! In fact one had spent over £300 on his tat's (far to much in my opinion!)

    Although knowing the girl as I did, I would suggest it was the first one, but I can see why people use their appearence as a shield, I guess just wanting to look normal can be seen the same way, I don't want to stand out as someone might see me.

    I hope that doesn't sound judgemental, it's not meant to be.
    Current debt - £16,300 :(
    Debt at worst 17/03/2011 - £18,067.62:eek::eek:
    :ANot going anywhere else, ever again :A
  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    You know, the pink hair thing must be symptomatic of attention seekers as I used to work with the world's worst attention seeker and not only did she dye her own hair pink, but she dyed her daughters hair pink for her first ever day at school! :o You should see the state of the primary one photo!

    Munchausen's by proxy?
    Like I said earlier, real depression is like any other crippling illness. Too many people say, "I'm depressed" when they mean, "I'm only at 95% today" while failing to realise that being depressed is like feeling the pain of a bereavement every day of your life. That's the only thing I can compare it to - the worst thing being that you often can't see a reason for it, and if the suffered can't, the chance of anyone else understanding it is even more slim!

    But I also think the Doctors contribute. I think they must get money for it or something. I have a consultant who tells me I'm depressed. I think he's working on the premise that since I think he's shiite, his treatment is shiite and his department is shiite, so there's obviously something wrong with me. :rolleyes: However this is an evidence-based conclusion on my part...
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."
    OMD 'Julia's Song'
  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    Lucy1982 wrote: »
    I can see why people use their appearence as a shield, I guess just wanting to look normal can be seen the same way, I don't want to stand out as someone might see me.

    But what is normal? A suit in a punk band would stand *way* out.
    Lucy1982 wrote: »
    I hope that doesn't sound judgemental, it's not meant to be.

    Don't worry - PC to us is pina colada.
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."
    OMD 'Julia's Song'
  • Lucy1982_2
    Lucy1982_2 Posts: 4,611 Forumite
    ZTD wrote: »
    But I also think the Doctors contribute. I think they must get money for it or something. I have a consultant who tells me I'm depressed. I think he's working on the premise that since I think he's shiite, his treatment is shiite and his department is shiite, so there's obviously something wrong with me. :rolleyes: However this is an evidence-based conclusion on my part...

    :rotfl:

    You mean you disagreed with one of the great medical brains!! How dare you!! They might take over the world one day when they can turn us all into mutant beetles!
    Current debt - £16,300 :(
    Debt at worst 17/03/2011 - £18,067.62:eek::eek:
    :ANot going anywhere else, ever again :A
  • Lucy1982_2
    Lucy1982_2 Posts: 4,611 Forumite
    ZTD wrote: »
    But what is normal? A suit in a punk band would stand *way* out.

    Don't worry - PC to us is pina colada.

    I guess it's a little my heels standing out at the rugby..... it's just not meant to be.

    And I have just managed to hang up on someone calling from France :o I'm not sure how it happened!
    Current debt - £16,300 :(
    Debt at worst 17/03/2011 - £18,067.62:eek::eek:
    :ANot going anywhere else, ever again :A
  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    Lucy1982 wrote: »
    I guess it's a little my heels standing out at the rugby..... it's just not meant to be.

    And I have just managed to hang up on someone calling from France :o I'm not sure how it happened!

    If it's important - they'll phone back. If it's not important, you've saved both of you your time.
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."
    OMD 'Julia's Song'
  • Lucy1982_2
    Lucy1982_2 Posts: 4,611 Forumite
    Oh she was after our company registration number etc... I had no idea what she was on about anyway!

    Someone else can deal with that!
    Current debt - £16,300 :(
    Debt at worst 17/03/2011 - £18,067.62:eek::eek:
    :ANot going anywhere else, ever again :A
  • ZTD
    ZTD Posts: 24,327 Forumite
    Lucy1982 wrote: »
    Oh she was after our company registration number etc... I had no idea what she was on about anyway!

    It'll be a supplier needing it for VAT. In the grand scheme of things, suppliers are just above earthworms in the pecking order... ;):p
    "Follow the money!" - Deepthroat (AKA William Mark Felt Sr - Associate Director of the FBI)
    "We were born and raised in a summer haze." Adele 'Someone like you.'
    "Blowing your mind, 'cause you know what you'll find, when you're looking for things in the sky."
    OMD 'Julia's Song'
  • Toto
    Toto Posts: 6,680 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    ZTD wrote: »



    But I also think the Doctors contribute. I think they must get money for it or something. I have a consultant who tells me I'm depressed. I think he's working on the premise that since I think he's shiite, his treatment is shiite and his department is shiite, so there's obviously something wrong with me. :rolleyes: However this is an evidence-based conclusion on my part...


    *giggle*

    you do make me laugh z :beer:
    :A
    :A
    "Everyone is a genius. But if you judge a fish on its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid" - Albert Einstein
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