Dealing with Debt and Depression.

Lucy1982_2

No this would be the very first time. I have stopped using the net and did so about a month ago. I should hear about a job offer tomorrow so hopefully they will offer it to me.

There is nothing much I can do other than say I did wrong and it has now stopped. But it doesn't stop me worrying.

judderman62

Lucy1982 wrote: »

No this would be the very first time. I have stopped using the net and did so about a month ago. I should hear about a job offer tomorrow so hopefully they will offer it to me.

There is nothing much I can do other than say I did wrong and it has now stopped. But it doesn't stop me worrying.

Try not to Lucy :grouphug: I am the same - if that was mer I'd already have convinced myself I'd get sacked, it'd be on my record and I'd never work again :rolleyes: :rolleyes::doh::doh:

Lucy1982_2

I think that's the problem. But I am trying to look rationally at it and I'm sure it will be fine. My boss didn't sound to worried so we shall see.

Hopefully I will be offered the new job tomorrow and I can turn round and quit!! If not I will deal with this and keep looking for something new.

There is nothing else I can do is there.

judderman62

hold it together hon.

You CAN cope - we all have more reserves of inner strength than we could ever imagine. You'll be fine Lucy :grouphug:

btw has anyone checked out the book I recommended ?

Lucy1982_2

I keep forgetting Sweet. I have a memory like a sieve these days. I will put it on my to do list (which get's ever bigger!!)

I have a lot more inner strength than I like to admit, but every now and then I wibble and become all pathetic! I used all my inner strength at the weekend when I left my boyfriend. Lovely man but not right for me.... I'm still feeling bad about it.

Wibble, wibble!

judderman62

Lucy1982 wrote: »

I keep forgetting Sweet. I have a memory like a sieve these days. I will put it on my to do list (which get's ever bigger!!)

I have a lot more inner strength than I like to admit, but every now and then I wibble and become all pathetic! I used all my inner strength at the weekend when I left my boyfriend. Lovely man but not right for me.... I'm still feeling bad about it.

Wibble, wibble!

sounds like you made the tough choice, many don't have the courage to, but I suspect the right one. It'll hurt for a while but likely the right thing to do :grouphug: :kisses3:

Judders

Lucy1982_2

I know it is, but it means that my confidence is a little low and I am feeling a little vunerable as I have removed a safety net, even though I was unhappy. Still what will be will be.

Right I off to get some sleep otherwise tomorrow really will be a bad day!

judderman62

Lucy1982 wrote: »

I know it is, but it means that my confidence is a little low and I am feeling a little vunerable as I have removed a safety net, even though I was unhappy. Still what will be will be.

Right I off to get some sleep otherwise tomorrow really will be a bad day!

sleep well Lucy and allow your confidence to be high - how much more confident a move can there be than making a very, very hard decision and one that removes, as you put it, a safety net and makes you feel vulnerable - that shouts confidence to me.

Change your angle of view sweetie :grouphug:

Keeping_Positive

Im sure it will just be a slap on the wrists Lucy, fingers crossed you get your job offer anyway.

You know you have done the right thing with your ex but its times like these we all look for extra comfort.

You are strong and the odd wibble is fine. I had a bit of a downer today, have wasted a day off work and feeling low brought on by some nasty people bullying/ripping off my family :mad: . Will aim to be more productive tomorrow.

Let us know how it goes and dont forget were here to support you through good and bad . In the meantime :grouphug:

Havent looked for book J thought I was doing ok but not so sure after today so may have to make a note to have a look for it.

judderman62

I think it can be a good one to have for times when you hit an unexpected low Wendy. If something comes at you out of the blue it's good to have a rescue plan - been meaning to do a full rescue plan for years - must get around to it - but having that book is a good starting point