40 year old male mid life crisis?

mimiduck

I'm pretty sure you kept saying 'wife' through out the post but now your saying 'not married' ..

**Meanwhile bookmarking this thread**

gomer

No need to bookmark. I have a feeling the thread won't be going away lol

smithers1981

Only said wife so I couldn’t be identified we not married, I’ve just messed up big time by getting smitten for young girl who isn’t interested karma I guess.

74jax

smithers1981 wrote: »

Only said wife so I couldn’t be identified we not married, I’ve just messed up big time by getting smitten for young girl who isn’t interested karma I guess.

You call her wife on all your other threads too, the going on holiday thread doesn't really matter, but something like this thread, the advice you get regarding splitting up implications etc varies if married or not so it's worth noting that.

flanker6

smithers1981 wrote: »

Only said wife so I couldn’t be identified we not married, I’ve just messed up big time by getting smitten for young girl who isn’t interested karma I guess.

You aren't the first and won't be the last!


But, as Gomer was saying in earlier posts, these things happen to people in already unstable/broken relationships.


So your wife ( now you say girlfriend) has seen the relationship is broken beyond repair an, totally understandably, decided to move on.


And, that's what you need to do too. Look to the future and ensure that you cherish the right person when she comes along.

gomer

flanker6 wrote: »

You aren't the first and won't be the last!


But, as Gomer was saying in earlier posts, these things happen to people in already unstable/broken relationships.


So your wife ( now you say girlfriend) has seen the relationship is broken beyond repair an, totally understandably, decided to move on.


And, that's what you need to do too. Look to the future and ensure that you cherish the right person when she comes along.

I seem to remember i was slated for saying it too. :cool:

Pollycat

smithers1981 wrote: »

Only said wife so I couldn’t be identified we not married, I’ve just messed up big time by getting smitten for young girl who isn’t interested karma I guess.

You referred to her as wife in this thread too:
https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6037606/owed-100-worth-pursuing

smithers1981 wrote: »

My wife sold some toys of my daughters, for £100 via gumtree, i told her do not send items until you receive money, she told me she had received money.

Posted toys at cost of £18 last week then yesterday she admitted she had not been paid, she is obviously upset and so am i at how foolish she has been.

We have messages confirming price, and have proof of delivery from royal mail.

Is it worth pursuing a letter before action perhaps leading to small claims court.

I suggest you stop all this obfuscation and tell the truth if you want relevant advice.

smithers1981

To confirm we not Married but after 15 years considered her my wife

flanker6

gomer wrote: »

I seem to remember i was slated for saying it too. :cool:

Doesn't mean that it's not true!

gomer

flanker6 wrote: »

Doesn't mean that it's not true!

Absolutely. It just means it wasn't what people wanted to hear. lol :A