Debt, debt and more debt.

chelseablue

Said it before but they could be twins. Mine got paid just over a week ago and now has nothing left.
He’s meant to be going to visit his friend up north on Tuesday for a few days and going to the ashes cricket (already got the tickets)
If he thinks I’m giving him money he can think on

4853emma

My OH can afford to have nothing left because I'll buy the food for us or sell something on Ebay and then say we'll go out for a couple of drinks. I really don't think he has thought this through. He stayed out on Thursday and all of them went to Alderley Edge. (Expensive). He said he went to bed and didn't go. Now he would turn up to the opening of an envelope and so my guess is that he had no money to go. At the event he was spending on his company credit card but wouldn't have been able to do that afterwards. Chelseablue - An ashes break is expensive He'll have to drink water.

4853emma

I've applied for a house. It is more than I wanted to pay but hopefully I can be gone at the weekend. Got told today that I'm the oddest person he has ever met and can't wait for me to go.

Toni'sfriend

Fingers crossed for the house.

Honestly, words fail me. The sooner you get out of this situation the better.

Sunshine_girl2

Hi, 4853Emma I have read your diary so far and it saddens me to think of the way you are living . Before you leap though please make sure you can afford your rent payments , I would hate to think you were making things worse .
Do you own your house with husband or rent ? Just thinking of if you sold would you have any equity to start again.
I will assume you are on the south side of the big town, referral to Alderley Edge , he has expensive taste your husband.

Posting here will help you get through , good luck with the move if you go ahead.

4853emma

I'm renting in North Manchester. He's borrowing money from his friend for his deposit. He has justvsent him a text asking for it quickly so he can be rid of me.

I applied today to teach Chinese students English and fingers crossed I'll be accepted. This will give me £150 a month.

I feel proper miserable . We have a three year old dog that he treats like a baby. He told me to put it on FB and ger rid. He has also emailed the Landlord and said he is moving out. I have a month!

Sunshine_girl2

I hope you manage to get out in the month , what a plonker the husband is, I think you are well rid. Sorry if that sounds harsh .

4853emma

No, it's what I need to hear. I've been living with it so long it seems normal to me. It's only when I hear other people commenting that I begin to think it isn't.
He has told me that until he goes I'm not to speak to him, text him or ring him
I paid the deposit on the house and I asked him if would pay half to any deductions. He said he wouldn't and that I'd do the same in his position.

beanielou

Life will become so much better for you very soon.

4853emma

DD is absolutely bereft that we may not be able to keep the dog at our new property
I promised her I would try to find somewhere we can take him with us. To be honest it breaks my heart too. He is our little baby. I've found a cottage in a better area and
£250 cheaper but smaller. £250 a month gives me £3000 a year and so I've requested a viewing.
OH has been looking at flats again he says. He has done nothing all day. Not even washed a cup.
Finally got my money back. £285 short but I'll just have to suck that up. It's the last money he'll take from me. Back in work today. It went ok, although I've felt very teary.