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Debt, debt and more debt.
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Great news.
So pleased for you:TI am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.
Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
"A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb. ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.1 -
Your mum & dad would not offer if they did not want to
They would still expect you to have a life.
Sooner the better for you to be out of that toxic environment:)I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.
Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
"A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb. ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.1 -
Just read through your diary. I hope the estate agents have somewhere available for you to rent. If your OH did find a flat himself, will you be able to stay where you are or is that a case of all talk and no action from him. Been in a similar situation myself...paydbx2025 #26 £890/£5000 . Mortgage start £148k June 23 - now £138k.
2025 savings challenge £0/£2000 EF £140. Savings 2 £30.00. 171 -
Said it before but they could be twins. Mine got paid just over a week ago and now has nothing left.
He’s meant to be going to visit his friend up north on Tuesday for a few days and going to the ashes cricket (already got the tickets)
If he thinks I’m giving him money he can think on1 -
Fingers crossed for the house.
Honestly, words fail me. The sooner you get out of this situation the better.Have adventures. laugh a lot and always be kind.1 -
Hi, 4853Emma I have read your diary so far and it saddens me to think of the way you are living . Before you leap though please make sure you can afford your rent payments , I would hate to think you were making things worse .
Do you own your house with husband or rent ? Just thinking of if you sold would you have any equity to start again.
I will assume you are on the south side of the big town, referral to Alderley Edge , he has expensive taste your husband.
Posting here will help you get through , good luck with the move if you go ahead.Life is an adventure, never stop exploring.1 -
I hope you manage to get out in the month , what a plonker the husband is, I think you are well rid. Sorry if that sounds harsh .Life is an adventure, never stop exploring.1
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Life will become so much better for you very soon.I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.
Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
"A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb. ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.1 -
I hope you get good news about your cottage soon. I also hope he goes soon so you can clean up and get your security deposit back. And don't give him a penny.
Keep going. Nearly there xxxLoan 1 £5200/£8000
Loan 2 £300/£5800
Total £5500/£138001 -
I'm just popping in as well with some encouragement. Hope you get something sorted with accommodation.Have adventures. laugh a lot and always be kind.1
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