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Debt, debt and more debt.

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  • Suffolk_lass
    Suffolk_lass Posts: 10,269 Forumite
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    Ooh you lucky thing. Fantastic for you, well done for being so practical!
    Save £12k in 2025 #2 I am at £4863.32 out of £6000 after May (81.05%)
    OS Grocery Challenge in 2025 I am at £1286.68/£3000 or 42.89% of my annual spend so far
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  • Primrose
    Primrose Posts: 10,703 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper I've been Money Tipped!
    Delighted for you and well done for doing the right thing to repay yiur Dad.
    It just shows that in times of great despair the sun can still unexpectedly shine. What a nice early Christmas present and a good kick-start to your new life.

    Just don,t let your ex get to hear about it via your daughter (or though unconsidered family chatting) or he'll be after some of it to aid his reckless spending habits. At least you're in control of your money now.
  • Toni'sfriend
    Toni'sfriend Posts: 4,056 Forumite
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    Fantastic. About time you got some good luck. xxx
    Have adventures. laugh a lot and always be kind.
  • Primrose
    Primrose Posts: 10,703 Forumite
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    Sounds as if you're managing to move in the right direction. Well done !
  • Toni'sfriend
    Toni'sfriend Posts: 4,056 Forumite
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    You're definitely heading in the right direction. Good to hear.

    Have a good weekend.
    Have adventures. laugh a lot and always be kind.
  • enthusiasticsaver
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    Wonderful news re the Bingo win.
    I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Debt free Wannabe, Budgeting and Banking and Savings and Investment boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.

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  • SuperMoose
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    Good grief he sounds vile :mad: Glad you are away from him :)
    Please put out food and water for the birds and hedgehogs :)
  • enthusiasticsaver
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    Goodness he sounds like a vile excuse for a human being. You are well shot of him. Just ask why he is still texting you with this abusive stuff and why haven't you blocked him? I know he is your daughters dad but I would seriously not want her anywhere near him.
    I’m a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on the Debt free Wannabe, Budgeting and Banking and Savings and Investment boards. If you need any help on these boards, do let me know. Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any posts you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button, or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.

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  • Chrystal
    Chrystal Posts: 1,997 Forumite
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    He is a serial liar, so please don't let anything he says get through to you, as he's probably just making it all up to try and upset you.

    He wouldn't be bothered to tell you any of this unless he thought that it would 'get' to you.
    Don't give him the satisfaction and just block him, which will probably upset him more than anything else you can do. Not blocking him is letting him continue to inflict emotional abuse on you. You need to realise you deserve better than than that. X
    I Believe.....
    That it isn't always enough, to be forgiven by others.
    Sometimes, you have to learn to forgive yourself.

    Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery
    Today is a gift. That's why it is called the present.

    happiness isn't achieved by getting extra things,
    but by getting rid of the things that make you unhappy
  • Toni'sfriend
    Toni'sfriend Posts: 4,056 Forumite
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    Honestly, Emma, he is doing this to upset you and make you feel inadequate. He's a nasty piece of work by the sounds of it. Block him especially if he has no reason to and doesn't seem interested in contacting your daughter.
    Have adventures. laugh a lot and always be kind.
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