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  • POPPYOSCAR
    POPPYOSCAR Posts: 14,902 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    edited 10 March 2019 at 3:34PM
    Elika0215 wrote: »
    First and foremost, I never said it was davidmcn's post that caused a reaction from the OP.

    Secondly, what you seem to be defending so vehemently is that there wasn't anything to offend the OP. Therefore, concluding that I was making the whole thing up.

    You only know about your deleted post, unless you have administrator access to MSE forums. Also there has been mention of a possible 2nd deleted post (not by me incidentally).

    So, is it beyond comprehension that there actually was a post that rightly offended the OP and my comment was valid and justified? Instead, all you (and others) have done is focus on trying to make the whole thing look like it's staged somehow.

    What on earth would I have to gain by commenting about something that didn't happen?

    Finally, please look at how you've quoted my previous post and overlooked everything except that little excerpt. Irrespective of where this all stems from, do you find it acceptable that I've been treated in this manner?

    It was his post that first caused a reaction from the OP.

    But you have not admonished the Op for being rude for no reason so why are you having a go at others.?

    You have ignored that altogether and fail to acknowledge that is the reason I certainly made my subsequent post and others that you took to task.
  • Aylesbury_Duck
    Aylesbury_Duck Posts: 15,956 Forumite
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    rob37700 wrote: »
    oh wow, i'm not but thank you for your input
    I asked a relevant question and you butted in with nonsense , is that how you get you post stats up?
    If this is how the MSN community treats new comers, i'd rather go elsewhere
    Admin, please close or do whatever you have to, this thread is now dead

    cheers
    That went well.
  • POPPYOSCAR
    POPPYOSCAR Posts: 14,902 Forumite
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    That went well.

    Yes I am surprised it is still going.

    Sometimes there is no rhyme or reason on this site.
  • Elika0215
    Elika0215 Posts: 167 Forumite
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    POPPYOSCAR wrote: »
    It was his post that first caused a reaction from the OP.

    But you have not admonished the Op for being rude for no reason so why are you having a go at others.?

    You have ignored that altogether and fail to acknowledge that is the reason I certainly made my subsequent post and others that you took to task.

    You're asking a lot of questions but rarely answering them but ok;

    I agree that nobody, including the OP, should be rude or personal on any platform.

    I wasn't having a go at others - I was pointing out that it can be like this on the forum. I didn't single out a user or say anything remotely abusive. The "having a go" (what you also called, taking me to task) was all directed at me. To reiterate, I was told I was lying, delusional and well, you know the rest.

    Speaking of not acknowledging, I put across my perspective at the end of the 2nd page of this thread and it seemed that was that. OK, there was a comment at the beginning of this page that was probably directed at me but I just sighed and didn't respond.

    Why then has this continued? Have a look back to when I starting commenting again on page 3. So, why are you not acknowledging this?
  • POPPYOSCAR
    POPPYOSCAR Posts: 14,902 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    Elika0215 wrote: »
    You're asking a lot of questions but rarely answering them but ok;

    I agree that nobody, including the OP, should be rude or personal on any platform.

    I wasn't having a go at others - I was pointing out that it can be like this on the forum. I didn't single out a user or say anything remotely abusive. The "having a go" (what you also called, taking me to task) was all directed at me. To reiterate, I was told I was lying, delusional and well, you know the rest.

    Speaking of not acknowledging, I put across my perspective at the end of the 2nd page of this thread and it seemed that was that. OK, there was a comment at the beginning of this page that was probably directed at me but I just sighed and didn't respond.

    Why then has this continued? Have a look back to when I starting commenting again on page 3. So, why are you not acknowledging this?


    After all that you have still not answered the question.
  • Elike,
    As you have suffered from (and may still do) from depression, anxiety and psychosis, don't you think that for the sake of your health it would be best to simply ignore this particular thread totally instead of constantly returning?
  • Elika0215
    Elika0215 Posts: 167 Forumite
    Tenth Anniversary 100 Posts
    POPPYOSCAR wrote: »
    After all that you have still not answered the question.

    Sigh - I did.
    Elike,
    As you have suffered from (and may still do) from depression, anxiety and psychosis, don't you think that for the sake of your health it would be best to simply ignore this particular thread totally instead of constantly returning?

    Two of the three but yes, you're right. I did move on and others started chit-chatting, so it was all good. However, a member then decided to dig at me completely out of the blue. I naturally felt it was worth pointing out that I didn't think it was ok.
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