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Item of mine sold by ex wife
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            Unfortunately, there's a core of members that write offensive responses and then everyone jumps on the OP for reacting.
 I fear there's little you can do about the hot tub, however unreasonable that may seem. The quickest way to protect your more valuable assets is to take what you can as soon as you can. If finances get messy, then you at least have some bargaining power!
 Try re-reading the thread. The OP started throwing around accusations of members being keyboard warriors in post #7 - so which were the "offensive responses" in the preceding responses, because I can't see them?0
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            Try re-reading the thread. The OP started throwing around accusations of members being keyboard warriors in post #7 - so which were the "offensive responses" in the preceding responses, because I can't see them?
 The response I was referring to appears to have been deleted.There was nothing offensive about davidmcn’s post merely advise that there was a better forum their question.
 Get your head out of your own butt Elika and read before you comment.
 Awesome - that put me in my place. It must have given you great satisfaction too. Well done and have a good weekend.0
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            The response I was referring to appears to have been deleted.
 That's handy isn't it?
 If there was an offensive post that has now been removed, why didn't the OP make any mention of or quote from it when they responded to the post from davidmcn?
 The obvious answer to that is simple. They didn't mention or quote from it because no such post ever existed.0
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            Hermione_Granger wrote: »That's handy isn't it?
 If there was an offensive post that has now been removed, why didn't the OP make any mention of or quote from it when they responded to the post from davidmcn?
 The obvious answer to that is simple. They didn't mention or quote from it because no such post ever existed.
 Impressive and nicely deduced! I come on here and comment purely for a reaction such as this but it appears that I've been caught out.
 I mean, there is an option to delete a post - how far are you prepared to dig in order to prove that wasn't the case?
 Personally, I'll move on but by all means look through my previous posts and highlight any irregularities if it gives you a sense of victory. If not, then thanks for your opinion and have a good weekend.0
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            Given how late you turned up to the thread and the fact that no one else has mentioned or quoted it I would say this was a delusion of your own making0
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            It does look like a post was deleted after post 7 as post 8 doesnt make sense, having said that it must have been posted and deleted very quick0
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            Aylesbury_Duck wrote: »I can't understand why the OP and his wife are estranged. He seems such a calm and tolerant person.
 :T
 Me too. What a shame he can't cool off in a hot tub.0
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            The silence is deafening!
 Perhaps @davidmcn isn't as obsessed as yourself about it and has moved on?
 There may have been 2 posts removed rather than just one but the one you're referring to was totally harmless and as mentioned earlier advised correctly that there was a better forum for the OP to use. God knows why it was removed.
 Perhaps it's time for you to move on too.0
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