Item of mine sold by ex wife

hb2

melanzana wrote: »

Hot Tubs are a bit mad IMO of course. But leaving that aside, how did EXW get access to this piece of property to sell it anyway?

I'm assuming that the ex, and the hot tub, were still resident in the marital property?

Le_Kirk

LilElvis wrote: »

I think some people should just pop out, buy a hot tub and a bottle of wine, climb in and chill out.

If you can chill out in your Hot Tub, you need to take it back and get a refund!

Bermonia

I still maintain that Elika should remove her head from her own butt before commenting lol

Elika0215

"Bully" definition: seek to harm, intimidate, or coerce (someone perceived as vulnerable).

Bermonia

Hmmm... the only thing I have attempted to ‘coerce’ is the removal of your head from your butt - also I am unsure as to why you perceive yourself as someone vulnerable?

Elika0215

Bermonia wrote: »

Hmmm... the only thing I have attempted to ‘coerce’ is the removal of your head from your butt - also I am unsure as to why you perceive yourself as someone vulnerable?

That's the 3rd time you've said this despite me telling you it's offensive. It's no different than children in the playground - noticing they're upset (by being offended) and then continuing to say the very thing that's triggered it.

You've also told me that I was delusional for saying a post was deleted - then there wasn't any acknowledgement that you were wrong after other members categorically said they did have messages deleted. All you did was continue to dig at me.

Group mentality - lots of members jumping on you bandwagon. Some were just telling it from there perspective but others were also not acknowledging that I was called a liar etc...and joined in with the little digs.

Yes, I have suffered from depression, anxiety and believe it or not, psychosis. The delusional comment itself was therefore also offensive (even more so after it was proved I was right).

So - you didn't know that but that's not the point. I'm not sure you even care but would you talk to a stranger like this face-to-face?

I've done my best to keep it relevant, not get personal and make my point and was told that I'm obsessed. I haven't received anywhere near the same courtesy.

pmduk

Elika0215 wrote: »

I've done my best to keep it relevant, not get personal and make my point and was told that I'm obsessed. I haven't received anywhere near the same courtesy.

If you have issues with another poster, or just don't agree with what they post, just put them on ignore rather than argue with them. It makes you the bigger person.

Click on the user name, then click on user lists and add to ignore list.

Elika0215

pmduk wrote: »

If you have issues with another poster, or just don't agree with what they post, just put them on ignore rather than argue with them. It makes you the bigger person.

Thank you, I appreciate that you're trying to help.

However, I feel I should stand my ground rather than turn a blind eye. I've seen this kind of behaviour hurt others from when I was a child and throughout my adult life. I want to highlight the implications of these kind of comments rather than just allow members to make them unchallenged.

POPPYOSCAR

Elika0215 wrote: »

That's the 3rd time you've said this despite me telling you it's offensive. It's no different than children in the playground - noticing they're upset (by being offended) and then continuing to say the very thing that's triggered it.

You've also told me that I was delusional for saying a post was deleted - then there wasn't any acknowledgement that you were wrong after other members categorically said they did have messages deleted. All you did was continue to dig at me.

Group mentality - lots of members jumping on you bandwagon. Some were just telling it from there perspective but others were also not acknowledging that I was called a liar etc...and joined in with the little digs.

Yes, I have suffered from depression, anxiety and believe it or not, psychosis. The delusional comment itself was therefore also offensive (even more so after it was proved I was right).

So - you didn't know that but that's not the point. I'm not sure you even care but would you talk to a stranger like this face-to-face?

I've done my best to keep it relevant, not get personal and make my point and was told that I'm obsessed. I haven't received anywhere near the same courtesy.

For the sake of clarity only one member stated they had a post deleted and that was me and as far as I can see it was the only one.

Could you please explain to me what was so offensive about the post from davidmcn to justify such a rude response from the OP .(From which this all stems)

Elika0215

POPPYOSCAR wrote: »

For the sake of clarity only one other member stated they had a post deleted and that was me and as far as I can see it was the only one.

Could you please explain to me what was so offensive about the post from davidmcn to justify such a rude response from the OP .(From which this all stems)

First and foremost, I never said it was davidmcn's post that caused a reaction from the OP.

Secondly, what you seem to be defending so vehemently is that there wasn't anything to offend the OP. Therefore, concluding that I was making the whole thing up.

You only know about your deleted post, unless you have administrator access to MSE forums. Also there has been mention of a possible 2nd deleted post (not by me incidentally).

So, is it beyond comprehension that there actually was a post that rightly offended the OP and my comment was valid and justified? Instead, all you (and others) have done is focus on trying to make the whole thing look like it's staged somehow.

What on earth would I have to gain by commenting about something that didn't happen?

Finally, please look at how you've quoted my previous post and overlooked everything except that little excerpt. Irrespective of where this all stems from, do you find it acceptable that I've been treated in this manner?