I am so hurt and confused

katiekittykat

Thank you everyone for all the time you have taken to reply

In the meantime he is still using my Netflix/Now TV/Amazon Prime

Also he hasn't told people we have split up at work (he works for my customer long story) and is still telling them all stories of what we got up to at the weekend.

It is all very odd

katiekittykat

Pollycat wrote: »

Ah.
Additional information.



Maybe this friend is relevant to the way your ex feels about you.

Maybe he isn't.

Sorry didn't even think to say they were male x

melanzana

Was that a typo or did you actually spend three WEEKS in Vegas?

If so, what the heck did you do for three weeks?

Anyway, I wish you well, but probably won't work out anymore now. Sorry.

Pollycat

katiekittykat wrote: »

Sorry didn't even think to say they were male x

That's OK.
I think a lot of posters (including me ) jumped to conclusions.

Re your earlier post - I think his behaviour is odd too.

katiekittykat

melanzana wrote: »

Was that a typo or did you actually spend three WEEKS in Vegas?

If so, what the heck did you do for three weeks?

Anyway, I wish you well, but probably won't work out anymore now. Sorry.

No 3 weeks and loads ha ha x

katiekittykat

Pollycat wrote: »

That's OK.
I think a lot of posters (including me ) jumped to conclusions.

Re your earlier post - I think his behaviour is odd too.

Very odd.

It is all very odd none of it makes sense

-taff

katiekittykat wrote: »

In the meantime he is still using my Netflix/Now TV/Amazon Prime

CHange your passwords asap

badmemory

-taff wrote: »

CHange your passwords asap

Definitely do this - also to anything else he may have had access to. Yes you are hurt & confused but you need to protect yourself from someone who is definitely not feeling any hurt or confusion, if he was he wouldn't still be using your netflix etc.

Doodles

When this sort of unexpected thing happens to us, it leaves us in a bit of shock and wondering what's going on in his/her head doesn't it.

With breakups, you often never get the answers to those 'why' questions.

The best thing you can do, is look after yourself. It's hard but try and keep busy, get on with life, and get out with friends/do enjoyable things.

Let him get on with it.

katiekittykat

Doodles wrote: »

When this sort of unexpected thing happens to us, it leaves us in a bit of shock and wondering what's going on in his/her head doesn't it.

With breakups, you often never get the answers to those 'why' questions.

The best thing you can do, is look after yourself. It's hard but try and keep busy, get on with life, and get out with friends/do enjoyable things.

Let him get on with it.

I am trying, just finding it all hard to process tbh.