I am so hurt and confused

Mr_Costcutter

Unrequieted love is extremely painful, but you can't ''make'' someone love you, as much as you actually love them. I'm sure the right man will come along in due course

-taff

katiekittykat wrote: »

Why is it worse in Jan?

You'd have given him his Christmas presents and wasted money. At least this way, you can send them back or give them to someone else.

katiekittykat

-taff wrote: »

You'd have given him his Christmas presents and wasted money. At least this way, you can send them back or give them to someone else.

They have been personalised anyway so not use ... but I see what you mean xxx

katiekittykat

Struggling today as anniversary of a friends death and he always used to plan something to cheer me up

duchy

katiekittykat wrote: »

Struggling today as anniversary of a friends death and he always used to plan something to cheer me up

So what are you going to do to cheer yourself up instead ?

Red-Squirrel_2

katiekittykat wrote: »

Struggling today as anniversary of a friends death and he always used to plan something to cheer me up

Sorry for the loss of your friend. X

Nothing wrong with being sad about it. Think about your friend today and not about him. Hope you feel a bit brighter soon.

gycraig_2

katiekittykat wrote: »

How long does it usually last would you say?

Honestly just move on you deserve more. There's plenty of men out there who won't leave you At the first sign of a better rose tinted future.

justme111

Accept he will not be able to tell you why - people tend not to recognise anything that paints them not In the light they want to see themselves.
Find something else new and interesting.
Hope recovery will not take long

moneyistooshorttomention

justme111 wrote: »

Accept he will not be able to tell you why - people tend not to recognise anything that paints them not In the light they want to see themselves.

That much is very true imo.

One of the things that has struck me as I get older is that I wonder if there is literally anyone at all on the planet that is "completely known" by even one other person. The older one gets too - then the more it is the case that there are things one simply won't tell more than a handful of people/maybe won't tell anyone at all anyway.

The vast majority of people can't (or don't want to) look at themselves from an objective outsider viewpoint and very often don't know what motivates them to do/not do things.

katiekittykat

Thank you everyone went to The Lanterns at Chester zoo