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  • Happy Christmas πŸŽ…β›„πŸŽπŸŽ„
    Finally Debt Free After 34 Years, But Still Need to Live Frugally
    Debt in July 2017 = Β£58,766 😱 DEBT FREE 31 OCTOBER 2017 :T πŸŽ‰
    EMERGENCY FUND 1 = Β£50/Β£5,000. EMERGENCY FUND 2 = Β£10/Β£5,000.
    CHRISTMAS SAVINGS = Β£0/Β£500. SEF = Β£1,400/Β£12,000 PREMIUM BONDS ME = Β£350. PREMIUM BONDS DH = Β£300.
    HOLIDAY MONEY = Β£0 TIME LEFT TO PAY OFF MORTGAGE = 5 YEARS 1 MONTHS
  • Happy New Year TF2 πŸŽ‰πŸŽ‰πŸŽ‰
    Finally Debt Free After 34 Years, But Still Need to Live Frugally
    Debt in July 2017 = Β£58,766 😱 DEBT FREE 31 OCTOBER 2017 :T πŸŽ‰
    EMERGENCY FUND 1 = Β£50/Β£5,000. EMERGENCY FUND 2 = Β£10/Β£5,000.
    CHRISTMAS SAVINGS = Β£0/Β£500. SEF = Β£1,400/Β£12,000 PREMIUM BONDS ME = Β£350. PREMIUM BONDS DH = Β£300.
    HOLIDAY MONEY = Β£0 TIME LEFT TO PAY OFF MORTGAGE = 5 YEARS 1 MONTHS
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,235 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    Wishing you a positive happy & healthy new year xx
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • teafor2
    teafor2 Posts: 3,322 Forumite
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    Thank you Beanie and HHD. I'm seeing it in at my Mum's this year. It's not been a great few weeks to be honest. I've practically left home and moved in with Mum, only getting back to see the family every few days, but needs must at the moment. I don't see 2021 being much better in some respects, but I'm blessed to have a very understanding and supporting hubby and we'll deal with it. Hope everybody has had a lovely Christmas. Wishing you all a Happy New Year. xx
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,235 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    Sending you love & strength.
    Take care of you xx
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • That sounds hard TF2. I'm thinking of you Xx
    Finally Debt Free After 34 Years, But Still Need to Live Frugally
    Debt in July 2017 = Β£58,766 😱 DEBT FREE 31 OCTOBER 2017 :T πŸŽ‰
    EMERGENCY FUND 1 = Β£50/Β£5,000. EMERGENCY FUND 2 = Β£10/Β£5,000.
    CHRISTMAS SAVINGS = Β£0/Β£500. SEF = Β£1,400/Β£12,000 PREMIUM BONDS ME = Β£350. PREMIUM BONDS DH = Β£300.
    HOLIDAY MONEY = Β£0 TIME LEFT TO PAY OFF MORTGAGE = 5 YEARS 1 MONTHS
  • I hope you're coping TF2. How is your mum? I know you're having a tough time at the moment so I'm thinking of you.
    Finally Debt Free After 34 Years, But Still Need to Live Frugally
    Debt in July 2017 = Β£58,766 😱 DEBT FREE 31 OCTOBER 2017 :T πŸŽ‰
    EMERGENCY FUND 1 = Β£50/Β£5,000. EMERGENCY FUND 2 = Β£10/Β£5,000.
    CHRISTMAS SAVINGS = Β£0/Β£500. SEF = Β£1,400/Β£12,000 PREMIUM BONDS ME = Β£350. PREMIUM BONDS DH = Β£300.
    HOLIDAY MONEY = Β£0 TIME LEFT TO PAY OFF MORTGAGE = 5 YEARS 1 MONTHS
  • teafor2
    teafor2 Posts: 3,322 Forumite
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    edited 5 February 2021 at 12:47AM
    Hi HHD :) Thank you for popping by, it was lovely to see a message :)Β Β 

    My sister came in mid Jan and spent a week with Mum to give me a break then last week I managed to move outΒ  for 4 days but still came up to see her every day. On Friday I had to move back in with her again. She's exhausted and in pain and spends a lot of time in bed. I'm doing nothing more than fetching, carrying and cooking for her but some days it feels like a full time job. Depending on how she is I try to get home for a couple of hours, so far I've only managed to do that twice. Her chemo has been postponed for the second time because she's not up to having it but her GP has prescribed new medication today so I'm hoping that will help.Β 

    I hardly come on here these days and have no idea what anybody is up to lately, but I hope you and yours are all keeping well and the same for everybody else. xx
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 96,235 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    Glad to hear from you but sorry to hear things are still tough.
    I really hope that the new medication helps.
    Please take care of you xx
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • LABMUM
    LABMUM Posts: 157 Forumite
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    Thinking of you x
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