We’d like to remind Forumites to please avoid political debate on the Forum.
This is to keep it a safe and useful space for MoneySaving discussions. Threads that are – or become – political in nature may be removed in line with the Forum’s rules. Thank you for your understanding.
📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!
How would you feel

toejumper
Posts: 2,441 Forumite


How would you feel and what would your reaction be if you saw these text messages on your husdand/partners phone
Her. Hi can I ring you
Him, you sure can sexy
Her, sorry I haven't rung you for a while I've still been poorly
Him, I told you I'd come round and nurse you better
Her, can I ring you
Him, you sure can I'm looking forward to it and three wolf whistle emoji
Her. Hi can I ring you
Him, you sure can sexy
Her, sorry I haven't rung you for a while I've still been poorly
Him, I told you I'd come round and nurse you better
Her, can I ring you
Him, you sure can I'm looking forward to it and three wolf whistle emoji
0
Comments
-
Reaction - 'hubby can you come and explain these messages'.Forty and fabulous, well that's what my cards say....0
-
I would be angry and my reaction would be a bit stronger than the poster above:- "Your belongings are in the binliners outside - and they are not coming back inside until I hear your excuses for these messages! They had better be good as otherwise you will be out too."0
-
I'd question why I was committing an offence under the computer misuse act 1990 and accessing a computer system without authorization.I would be angry and my reaction would be a bit stronger than the poster above:- "Your belongings are in the binliners outside - and they are not coming back inside until I hear your excuses for these messages! They had better be good as otherwise you will be out too."Proud member of the wokerati, though I don't eat tofu.Home is where my books are.Solar PV 5.2kWp system, SE facing, >1% shading, installed March 2019.Mortgage free July 20230
-
I'd probably feel like I'd been hit by a train, depending on whether this behaviour was totally out of the blue..0
-
Thank you thorsoak i questioned this friendship with her at the begging of the year she's a ex colleague of his and he snapped at me saying he needed someone to talk to, instant told me to look on his phone on Monday night something I never do and saw these messages i went back on his phone on Tuesday night and he'd delited them0
-
I wouldnt be online posting I'd be seeking explanations. I doubt I'd be too polite about it either and I probably would already be planning a different future whilst listening to the excuses (but I would want to hear them).0
-
You should've confronted their and then, I would have gone mad! He's deleted them and if inclined could say you imagined it or are making them up.0
-
I would never dream of looking at my partner's phone. We respect each others privacy.
People flirt. It is often meaningless. If you distrust your partner this much then your relationship has serious problems. You should tell him what you did and seek counselling.0 -
I would never dream of looking at my partner's phone. We respect each others privacy.
People flirt. It is often meaningless. If you distrust your partner this much then your relationship has serious problems. You should tell him what you did and seek counselling.Ignore this, don't be a mug to him cheating.
It's a classic line by a cheater.
OP - OK. Don't seek counselling. Let things fester. Don't try to save your relationship.
Cjdavies - you seem to be calling me a cheater. Please retract.0
This discussion has been closed.
Confirm your email address to Create Threads and Reply

Categories
- All Categories
- 352.1K Banking & Borrowing
- 253.5K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
- 454.2K Spending & Discounts
- 245.1K Work, Benefits & Business
- 600.7K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
- 177.4K Life & Family
- 258.9K Travel & Transport
- 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
- 16.2K Discuss & Feedback
- 37.6K Read-Only Boards