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Would you comment on someone's speed if you were a passenger?

Deastons
Deastons Posts: 464 Forumite
edited 31 October 2018 at 10:50AM in Motoring
I can never bring myself to do it.

Last night I was in a cab as he topped 52mph in a 30 zone. I almost said something but figured it's not my place to police someone's driving. Or as a paying customer, is it?

And a few days before that, a friend was driving at 35ish in a 20. Again I said nothing.

Would you?
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  • DUTR
    DUTR Posts: 12,958 Forumite
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    Quite simply I'd tell you if you don't like it the make your own way there or back.
    It's obvious it's not your place to do so, it's not as if the driver isn't aware themselves, and sometimes there is little worse than *****ance.
  • sevenhills
    sevenhills Posts: 5,938 Forumite
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    Deastons wrote: »

    And a few days before that, a friend was driving at 35ish in a 20. Again I said nothing.

    Would you?


    You could say something like, 'I am in no rush', no need to be confrontational.
  • AndyMc.....
    AndyMc..... Posts: 3,248 Forumite
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    Deastons wrote: »
    I can never bring myself to do it.

    Last night I was in a cab as he topped 52mph in a 30 zone. I almost said something but figured it's not my place to police someone's driving. Or as a paying customer, is it?

    And a few days before that, a friend was driving at 35ish in a 20. Again I said nothing.

    Would you?

    Strange comment to make for someone who does it for a hobby.
  • worried_jim
    worried_jim Posts: 11,631 Forumite
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    I had a mate who drove like Miss Daisy (he's a vicar now) and I would continually tell him to get his foot down.
  • Car_54
    Car_54 Posts: 8,926 Forumite
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    I had a mate who drove like Miss Daisy (he's a vicar now) and I would continually tell him to get his foot down.
    You've never seen the film, have you?
  • James2k
    James2k Posts: 300 Forumite
    :beer:
    Strange comment to make for someone who does it for a hobby.
    hahaha+1
  • Car_54
    Car_54 Posts: 8,926 Forumite
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    Deastons wrote: »
    I can never bring myself to do it.

    Last night I was in a cab as he topped 52mph in a 30 zone. I almost said something but figured it's not my place to police someone's driving. Or as a paying customer, is it?

    And a few days before that, a friend was driving at 35ish in a 20. Again I said nothing.

    Would you?


    If you're a paying customer, you've every right to comment. A friend is different.
  • Deastons
    Deastons Posts: 464 Forumite
    DUTR wrote: »
    Quite simply I'd tell you if you don't like it the make your own way there or back.
    It's obvious it's not your place to do so, it's not as if the driver isn't aware themselves, and sometimes there is little worse than *****ance.

    How would I make my own way? On these occasions I had been drinking.
  • Deastons
    Deastons Posts: 464 Forumite
    I had a mate who drove like Miss Daisy (he's a vicar now) and I would continually tell him to get his foot down.

    I thought Miss Daisy was too old to drive...? Hence why it's called "Driving Miss Daisy".
  • DUTR
    DUTR Posts: 12,958 Forumite
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    Deastons wrote: »
    How would I make my own way? On these occasions I had been drinking.

    That wouldn't be the driver's problem, it would be your problem.
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