Sky - I just phoned and said I wanted to cancel, then they say they will look at what discounts they can offer you. We went through what package we have and decided that we wanted to keep it as it was and she said they could do it for half price. In my experience even if they do not offer you a deal over the phone if you go ahead and cancel they write to you before cancellation date and offer you a deal.
So, just when I think things are turning around not so DH drops a bomb shell over the phone...................he doesn't love me anymore and is not coming home, this is a repeat performance of last year and has left me to tell DD on my own again.....:(
Completely fed up, it has been difficult but I stupidly thought things were improving but how wrong I was.
Now I am left going it alone.
That's it now, it's time to try and pick up the pieces and go it alone.
So sorry Treadingwater, that is awful. If this is a repeat performance from last year will be he come back again and beg forgiveness? It sounds like you deserve so much better.
August 2019 - Debt £8000
June 2020 - Debt £190.96
Saving Pots: House Fund: £2015.21 Holiday Pot: £327.31 Rainy Day Fund: £964.84 Sod it/Treat Fund: £12.06
Stocks and Shares ISA: £189.65
Thanks for all the support, it is at times like this you really do find out that lovely people to exist.
It is definitely over, no going back, I'm not prepared to put myself or my DD through this anymore. It feels rubbish at the moment but I know it will get better eventually. I'm just taking one day at a time. I'm just so tired of feeling like this.
Well done on the Debt Free Date moving forward, you're doing really well.
Sending lots of hugs your way xxx
Official DFW Nerd Club - Member no. 791 - Proud to be dealing with my debts BC: £5000.00 - Lloyds: £5590.00 Xmas Pot £535/£700 ~ EF £621/1000 PAYDBX 2021 - #? £0 / £2,000
Sorry to hear about the situation with your DH , It never feels like it at the time but if he isn't committed to having a successful and happy life together then it is probably the kindest thing
The rubbish feeling will pass however let it flow through and out - One day you wake up and its no longer the first thing you think about xx
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Glas you're having a great week so far :j
June 2020 - Debt £190.96
Saving Pots: House Fund: £2015.21 Holiday Pot: £327.31 Rainy Day Fund: £964.84 Sod it/Treat Fund: £12.06
Stocks and Shares ISA: £189.65
Thanks for your support.
Sky - I just phoned and said I wanted to cancel, then they say they will look at what discounts they can offer you. We went through what package we have and decided that we wanted to keep it as it was and she said they could do it for half price. In my experience even if they do not offer you a deal over the phone if you go ahead and cancel they write to you before cancellation date and offer you a deal.
Good luck with your haggling!
Completely fed up, it has been difficult but I stupidly thought things were improving but how wrong I was.
Now I am left going it alone.
That's it now, it's time to try and pick up the pieces and go it alone.
June 2020 - Debt £190.96
Saving Pots: House Fund: £2015.21 Holiday Pot: £327.31 Rainy Day Fund: £964.84 Sod it/Treat Fund: £12.06
Stocks and Shares ISA: £189.65
It is definitely over, no going back, I'm not prepared to put myself or my DD through this anymore. It feels rubbish at the moment but I know it will get better eventually. I'm just taking one day at a time. I'm just so tired of feeling like this.
Sorry to hear your news
Well done on the Debt Free Date moving forward, you're doing really well.
Sending lots of hugs your way xxx
BC: £5000.00 - Lloyds: £5590.00
Xmas Pot £535/£700 ~ EF £621/1000
PAYDBX 2021 - #? £0 / £2,000
Sorry to hear about the situation with your DH , It never feels like it at the time but if he isn't committed to having a successful and happy life together then it is probably the kindest thing
The rubbish feeling will pass however let it flow through and out - One day you wake up and its no longer the first thing you think about xx