Loss of value on engagement ring

motorguy

Kay_Gee wrote: »

I really didn't want to keep it regardless.

I'm being sent screenshots, Apparently he dumped me as I was unfaithful with a guy called Rick.

He's getting on like an attention seeking petulant child who hasnt got his way.

Ignore him wholly and dont ever respond or challenge him. He wants to provoke a reaction. As soon as he does so - he wins.

I wouldnt give him the satisfaction.

Pollycat

motorguy wrote: »

Do we know they were from the ex?

I took it they they were from other people, posted by the ex.

Whoever
Whatever.
The OP is getting drawn in.

motorguy

Pollycat wrote: »

Whoever
Whatever.
The OP is getting drawn in.

I dont think it does any harm to know what he is doing - forewarned is forearmed and all that.

I would as i've said, ignore all direct contact with him.

My ex wife attempted to make my life miserable when we split up and it was all this sort of stuff. She hated being totally ignored - just like a petulant child does.

That didnt mean it wasnt useful to know what she was doing / had been saying.

Stoke

I don't see the harm in reading them, you know he's talking !!!!!!!!, I just see no point in replying. What does it gain?

Malthusian

This would make a great Money Moral Dilemma with a bit of editing.

TBagpuss

mgdavid wrote: »

When faced wih a 2nd hand statement from a solicitor, or just an opinion of 'some bloke on the internet' I wonder which I would be more likely to believe?

You are free to believe whatever you like.

For what it is worth, I'm not a bloke. If you read further up, the relevant statutory law has already been quoted.

Kay_Gee

Someone showed them to me and said "What is he on"

I actually laughed at his attempt at discrediting me

DigForVictory

Very happy to hear Dad is sound, and concerned mum may be still under the influence a tad.

Have you shown her any of his unspeakably charming billets-doux, including the wild accusations?

If someone started giving a child of mine lip like that, I'd pretty soon need a restraining order &/or a good lawyer.

Kay_Gee

Sent them to my dad. Haven't heard anything back yet.

Kay_Gee

Tonight is a low night.

I feel low and down. I really don't know how to snap out of it.