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Chrystal

Sending loving supportive thoughts in your direction. ((((hugs)))) X

Honeysucklelou2

So sorry MeandO...thinking of you and your family at this time.

MeandO

Thank you so very much all. I’m afraid I don’t have any positive news as of yet.

Two fb sales have been collected so i’ve paid £15 off the mortgage as an OP.

crazy_cat_lady

Lots of love to you - thinking of you

MeandO

Thank you so much CCL xx

MeandO

My wonderful Dad so very kindly gave me a £50 Asda gift card when I was home, to help buy some groceries. :heart2::heart2: Today I spent approx £18 on a few bits and so have just transferred £20 to the mortgage as an op from the cash I’d allocated to the grocery budget that I would have spent from the bank.

I know it’s probably daft, but, in a way, one reason for making these overpayments and for being savvy with my money is to do the right thing by my Mum and Dad. They have done so much for me and DS in so many ways and helped me so much financially over the years that I want to repay them in doing the right thing. I haven’t explained that well, but it makes sense in my mind and makes me feel happier doing so.
I do physically repay them £200 a month, but this is a nominal amount to what I owe them, although they say I owe them nothing.

My parents have never been in debt, have never been spenders and have always saved and budgeted for things they need. I have not been so wise in the past, but these days I do try to live by their example.

I don’t think they could ever know how eternally grateful I am to them.

My sister text me tonight from the hospital to say my Mum insisted she text me on her behalf to tell me she loves me and DS. I know my Mum, and this is because she thinks she may not make it. I could barely speak, it took the air out of my lungs and stung my eyes.
We had concerns about my Dad for a while tonight too. He is not coping well now. Seeing my Mum in such agony constantly is cutting him up and today he didn’t know whether she was dead or alive for some time after she was admitted. He was showing signs of shock earlier today but my sister has checked on him tonight after I called her and he seems ok. I am so desperately worried about them both.

Mortage@ March 2019: £107K. Now: £103,915.
Mortgage OP's 2019: £1307.33/£1800
EF: £3200 • H2S: £800

Mrs_Money_Penny

Popping in to say thinking of you and sending love xx

mumblingtaff

I echo the thoughts of everyone else. Thinking of you xx

[Deleted User]

Hi MeAndO, sorry to hear your sad news, sending hugs and keeping my fingers crossed that your mum will pull through. Xx

Chrystal

Just to say my thoughts are still with you. ((((hugs))))XX