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  • Hi Dizzy :hello:

    You are doing so well! Yay for new job and you have managed to save so much, I'm a little jealous ;) So sorry to hear about your brother, that's awful. Also can you not take action against your old employer if they've cheated you out of money?
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  • archcherub
    archcherub Posts: 11 Forumite
    Hi everyone!

    I've been having a little read of other people's stories on here so thought I'd start my own, hoping it'll keep me on track :rotfl:

    About me. I'm early 40's and have been renting forever. We have been very lucky with the landlord and not had a rent increase for 10 years, until now. He wanted to increase our rent by half again :eek: I worked out how much rent we'd paid to him over the years and was :eek::eek: , and I realised that I could be paying that on my own house. That's how I ended up here!

    I earn below the national average and live in one of the most expensive cities outside of London for house prices. I'm able to put away between £200-£250 a month at the mo but that should change in my favour in the next month or so, to put more away. I've a HTB ISA and "high" interest saving account and a pot at home for odd coins.

    I've a very long way to go on this so thought that keeping a diary here might help keep me focused when I find it difficult :)

    a saving diary is good. thats what i am here for too.
    don't underestimate those "odd coins" i deposited my odd coins after a few months and got enough for a week of groceries lol
  • Skint_yet_Again
    Skint_yet_Again Posts: 8,424 Forumite
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    So sorry to hear the news about your brother. Difficult times for you all. Does he have a pension or union that will pay for/towards the inevitable costs ?

    Can ACAS help with old employer ?
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  • Dizzy_Ditzy
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    archcherub wrote: »
    a saving diary is good. thats what i am here for too.
    don't underestimate those "odd coins" i deposited my odd coins after a few months and got enough for a week of groceries lol

    Oh yes! I keep all my £2 coins and have deposited about £250 in the last 12 months or so :D I've got another £50 worth but with the change of job, it's more difficult to get to the bank
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  • Dizzy_Ditzy
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    Hurrah for new job and walking- it will make you fit and hopefully you will have new work colleagues and a nicer environment. :jI am so sorry about your brother's illness. That is v hard news to deal with for all of you. I hope he is able to have good days where you can enjoy your time together. :A:A

    I am cross about your old employer and withholding your salary. It is horrid when they keep your hard earned money - that happened to one of my friends last year and she couldn't do anything about it. I would be in debt if it happened to me which is why it is good you have savings. :j

    Have a good week. The weather's going to be v wet.
    Hi Dizzy :hello:

    You are doing so well! Yay for new job and you have managed to save so much, I'm a little jealous ;) So sorry to hear about your brother, that's awful. Also can you not take action against your old employer if they've cheated you out of money?
    So sorry to hear the news about your brother. Difficult times for you all. Does he have a pension or union that will pay for/towards the inevitable costs ?

    Can ACAS help with old employer ?

    Thank you all :A

    Re my old employer - I need to be able to prove that they've stitched me up and I can't. It's all to do with holiday pay for overtime. They've given it then taken it away and then given some of it back again before taking some more away again. it's almost too much hassle :o
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  • savingwannabe
    savingwannabe Posts: 16,616 Forumite
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    Bless you Dizzy, I hope you had a good week and your family is ok.
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  • NicTom80
    NicTom80 Posts: 3 Newbie
    edited 9 July 2019 at 8:18PM
    I have been saving for five years now to buy a property. I am single, in a not well paid industry, living in an expensive area of the country. I got £50,000 inheritance money from my Uncle and have saved £27,000 myself on top of it. I am only just getting to the stage where this deposit and my salary = me being able to buy a property. Ridiculous!

    I have just done an updated AIP with my Bank, as had a small payrise confirmed last week and the amount its saying I could borrow is much higher than the last time I did an AIP. I am going to see a Mortgage Advisor as soon as I have made an appointment to check the accuracy of this as it is a huge difference. So fingers crossed. Scary and exciting but at the same time trying not to get my hopes up!
  • pinknsparkly
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    I'm so sorry to hear about your brother Ditzy, big hugs to all your family. And although I know the savings were supposed to be for a house, it's amazing that having them can give you enough breathing room to be there for him!

    And it's infuriating about your employer - I sometimes wonder just how much money employers, utility companies, banks etc make out of us little people purely because the entire system is stacked against us with all the power on their side :mad:
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  • Dizzy_Ditzy
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    :dance: :dance: :dance: £5000 :dance: :dance: :dance:
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  • savingwannabe
    savingwannabe Posts: 16,616 Forumite
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    Hello Dearest Dizzy, well done on the 5k that's wonderful. I hope you are ok and so is your brother.

    It's raining here.
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