taking responsibilty to get me where I want to be

efes_shareholder

Humdinger1 said:

@efes_shareholder do you think that time-limited couples counselling for you and NM might help things to move on? He sounds a bit stuck.  Up to you of course.  Love Humdinger xx 

potentially yes , i intend to give it a go myself and decide from there

efes_shareholder

well its that time of year 

WFH so managing to scoot around the house and get as many jobs done as possible.

NM is off tomorrow so that will be the final clean - Although anyone would think santa himself was coming to inspect my toilets the way I carry on

Work is dead so fortunately I can do it - still another half day to go tomorrow but hopefully more of the same.

Bank account is looking ok but that is because Xmas spends are currently on the everyday  CC !! I do have enough surplus wage to clear the bill I have without tapping in to savings and I am owed some money from my daughter , sister and NM for some purchases so hopefully when I have cleared those it won't look nearly as frightening.

Xmas day plans are sorted , boxing day is very up in the air ( although happily MC is not due here) so I've decided to operate an open house and we can just get pizza !!

Xmas shopping is done and a small top up delivery from Iceland coming tomorrow although I doubt I even need it !!!!!!!

Car insurance renewal has landed for £10 cheaper then last year and cheaper then we can find on comparision sites so will just let that auto renew