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  • ladyholly said:
    Good luck with your shopping. I hope the queues arent too long. On a side note has anyone else noticed the lack of larger sizes of items. I could only byt a small box of tea last time I went shoppoing a bit rediculous when people are at home more. There was no empty space on the shelf. Hoping this is just temporary. Large size packets of cornflakes and bags of frozen peas have also disappeared. All these are Mr S own brand so is it just part of their store choice reduction. However it does mean I have to shop more frequently for these items.
    Yes, Mr T’s doesn’t seem to have 6 pint cartons of milk. When you have a larger than average family and can only buy 3 x 4 pint cartons, it means cutting back and more trips to the supermarket, which seems contrary to Boris’ instruction.
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  • Onebrokelady
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    ladyholly said:
    Good luck with your shopping. I hope the queues arent too long. On a side note has anyone else noticed the lack of larger sizes of items. I could only byt a small box of tea last time I went shoppoing a bit rediculous when people are at home more. There was no empty space on the shelf. Hoping this is just temporary. Large size packets of cornflakes and bags of frozen peas have also disappeared. All these are Mr S own brand so is it just part of their store choice reduction. However it does mean I have to shop more frequently for these items.
    Yes, Mr T’s doesn’t seem to have 6 pint cartons of milk. When you have a larger than average family and can only buy 3 x 4 pint cartons, it means cutting back and more trips to the supermarket, which seems contrary to Boris’ instruction.
    It is a bit nonsensical isn't it ,I keep having to go shopping more than normal because I just can't get what I want, soya milk seems to disappear really quickly and there have been no Quorn products in Sainsburys for about four weeks now 😟
    Original Debt Owed Jan 18 = £17,630 Paid To Date = £6,736 Owed = £10,894
  • Sun_Addict
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    I experienced the opposite and could only get 4 pints of milk when I only wanted 1. There’s only Mr SA has milk in our house. It’s like when they were limiting the amount of items you could buy. Why go more than once if you can get it all in one go then stay away. I believe these restrictions have now been lifted though.
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  • Willowtree222
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    I'm lucky I get a milk delivery weekly and can get it all. I don't have much though so couldn't imagine having to feed a family in this climate x
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  • Onebrokelady
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    Today I actually got up before 10am 🎉🎉I still haven't achieved much though,I had to go to the pet shop for chicken corn so combined that with Bs walk, we went along the river which was refreshing due to the wind but we caught the bus back,B is struggling with long distances now she is getting older,she starts off ok but gets slower and slower as the walk goes on so I have to be careful not to take her too far,I did treat her to a box of gravy bones as well 😊

    DD ordered some red hair dye which arrived today so I've just dyed her hair for her, it looks really nice, she had a bit of a melt down today so needed cheering up

    My legs are really painful again today, they were bad last night so I took some codeine which did help but I've just had to take two more because I was in a lot of pain,I'm putting it down to the current situation that we all find ourselves in, typically if I am going through any kind of mental stress my body reacts with a Fibromyalgia flare up, even if I feel ok mentally my body will tell the actual truth, it's like a barometer of my feelings so I know if I'm in pain I'm not coping well, it's useful though because although it's not pleasant to be in pain it's alerting me to the fact that I need to take care of my mental health 

    Im now trying to not engage in too many discussions about the current situation, they mostly end up in arguments which stresses me out,I'm thinking my actual life hasn't changed too much really,I still do the same things at home that I've always done, I'm still going to work which has calmed down now, there is a feeling at work that we are in our new normality for a while so things are feeling a bit more settled, stuff keeps changing everyday still but it's not big changes so I can cope with that,I've done my first shift on the hot side of the ward and it was ok so I'm feeling confident that I can cope now

    I seem to have spent the last few weeks while in lockdown in some sort of suspended animation and not being able to move forwards with anything,today I've realised I need to get myself out of this state and carry on as normal, I have plenty of hobbies to keep me busy while I'm at home so I intend to crack on with them and try to make the most of my days off

    I am intending to either do some sewing or read my book later, the codeine I've taken has made me really dizzy so sewing might be a challenge until later on but I can sit and read 😊 


    Original Debt Owed Jan 18 = £17,630 Paid To Date = £6,736 Owed = £10,894
  • Sunshine_girl2
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    The way you describe your legs is how mine have felt the past few nights. They have been keeping me awake for hours . I have cancelled the rest of my leave this week, one to help out , but the other is because I need the routine to help me get through this. Are you sewing anything in particular ? 
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  • I think it's a good idea to try and get into a more normal mindset. Reading or watching the news is very stressful. As you say your own life hasn't changed that much as you're still at work, still earning money, etc. So try and focus on normal things as much as possible. I do think having a regular daily routine is very good for mental health.
    Finally Debt Free After 34 Years, But Still Need to Live Frugally
    Debt in July 2017 = £58,766 😱 DEBT FREE 31 OCTOBER 2017 :T 🎉
    EMERGENCY FUND 1 = £50/£5,000. EMERGENCY FUND 2 = £10/£5,000.
    CHRISTMAS SAVINGS = £0/£500. SEF = £1,400/£12,000 PREMIUM BONDS ME = £350. PREMIUM BONDS DH = £300.
    HOLIDAY MONEY = £0 TIME LEFT TO PAY OFF MORTGAGE = 5 YEARS 1 MONTHS
  • Sayschezza
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    OBL I think you are very brave. 
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