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Scottiedog_3 said:Given your caring responsibilities, do you not have the right to ask to work mainly from home ?
Now we've been informed there are several confirmed Covid cases in the office since we started the new working pattern 2 weeks ago. Great!
In other news, Mr SA has somehow worn a hole in the toe of his only a few weeks old canvas shoes. His reaction was 'I want some more'. I told him it's no longer the weather for summer canvas shoes and he's to start wearing his trainers. It's not as if he hasn't got plenty of footwear!I get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)6 -
You could darn the shoes SA…that will teach him 😁Not all who wander are lost - J.R.R.Tolkien
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Sun_Addict said:Scottiedog_3 said:Given your caring responsibilities, do you not have the right to ask to work mainly from home ?
Now we've been informed there are several confirmed Covid cases in the office since we started the new working pattern 2 weeks ago. Great!
In other news, Mr SA has somehow worn a hole in the toe of his only a few weeks old canvas shoes. His reaction was 'I want some more'. I told him it's no longer the weather for summer canvas shoes and he's to start wearing his trainers. It's not as if he hasn't got plenty of footwear!
I love the 'I want some more' from Mr SA, maybe we'd better start calling him OliverI Believe.....
That it isn't always enough, to be forgiven by others.
Sometimes, you have to learn to forgive yourself.
Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery
Today is a gift. That's why it is called the present.
happiness isn't achieved by getting extra things,
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I would also say Mr SA has deteriorated and become more reliant on you during lockdown…which from what you’ve written in your diary is true. I’m amazed you’ve managed to work as long as you have.January spends - £587.587
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I think, given that Mr SA ("Oliver"!
) is having a spate of falls recently, you would have a good case for saying you need to be within reach. I'm sorry to say the fact he has good days and bad days doesn't change the worst case scenario. If he fell and got stuck or injured and had to stay there till you got home, especially with colder weather coming, he would be in much more danger than if you were within reach.
Have a look back through the last month or so of your posts and build a case for being based at home.I think a bit of sunshine is good for frugal living. (Cranky40)
The sun's been out and I think I’m solar powered (Onebrokelady)
Fashion on the Ration 2025: Fabric 2, men's socks 3, Duvet 7.5, 2 t-shirts 10, men's socks 3, uniform top 0, hat 0, shoes 5 = 30.5/68
2024: Trainers 5, dress 7, slippers 5, 2 prs socks (gift) 2, 3 prs white socks 3, t-shirts x 2 10, 6 prs socks: mostly gifts 6, duvet set 7.5 = 45.5/68 coupons
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Happy Saturday.
Thank you for the thoughts on WFH on a permanent basis. I’ll certainly push for 4 days from home if 5 not feasible. With a bit of advance planning 1 day a week in is doable.
Strictly and Prosecco tonight 💃🥂
Flu jabs done ✔️ Flu clinic was very busy, like a factory production line. Not a lot of social distancing going off to say it was at the GP surgery.Just waiting for DS and the GKs to arrive. DIL has recently finished her nail technician training and is going to do me a Halloween themed manicure 🎃 She’s thinking black with orange glitter which sounds fabulous to me 🤩
Pizza night tonight 🍕I get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)9 -
Black with orange glitter sounds wonderful! Wish I could wear orange, it's a fabulous colour. You'll look great.I think a bit of sunshine is good for frugal living. (Cranky40)
The sun's been out and I think I’m solar powered (Onebrokelady)
Fashion on the Ration 2025: Fabric 2, men's socks 3, Duvet 7.5, 2 t-shirts 10, men's socks 3, uniform top 0, hat 0, shoes 5 = 30.5/68
2024: Trainers 5, dress 7, slippers 5, 2 prs socks (gift) 2, 3 prs white socks 3, t-shirts x 2 10, 6 prs socks: mostly gifts 6, duvet set 7.5 = 45.5/68 coupons
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Definitely think you have a good case to work at home SA especially with the falls risk. I honestly don't know why they make people go to the office if they can do their job perfectly well from home. I know there are benefits to seeing your co workers but if it's causing stress at home it's not worth it.
Im loving the sound of your nails. I'd love to have mine done but we aren't allowed any polish at work 😟Original Debt Owed Jan 18 = £17,630 Paid To Date = £6,510 Owed = £11,1206 -
The Halloween nails sound amazing. I would love to see a picture if you’d like to share?I never do mine as I’m so hard on them if peels in hours and then looks scruffy…I’ve never mastered ladylike.Not all who wander are lost - J.R.R.Tolkien
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