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Eager_Elephant wrote: »Thats exactly what you should have done so thats great!!!
They usually work to a 4 week turnaround so plenty of time. Call on Monday and tell them medical evidence is coming so that if they get to yours before the medical evidence is there they will pend it.
You can send extra evidence whenever you want, people are actually encouraged to send a letter and then send medical evidence in as its such a tight time limit they are given.
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Thank you EE I was worried I'd done it wrong. I will call them Monday and tell them I have more evidence. It will be more up to date and include the new meds and plans too which proves some of the things they said didn't apply to her. I will make sure I call around the team and confirm all the letters are being sent to me ASAP too then I can send a copy on.
Thank you again
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If you are thinking of paper chains, have you considered making some hanging pompoms? this link shows some suggested ways - all very easy if you have some wool in Christmassy coloursSave £12k in 2025 #2 I am at £10,020.92 out of £6000 after September
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Suffolk_lass wrote: »If you are thinking of paper chains, have you considered making some hanging pompoms? this link shows some suggested ways - all very easy if you have some wool in Christmassy colours
Oh we will attempt them, DD has quite a bit of wool from crafty things. They are currently in competition of who can make the biggest paper chain
We might have enough to cover the entire house at this rate :rotfl:
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I used to love making paper chains even more than DS did.
Those were the days & they go so quickly
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Suffolk_lass wrote: »If you are thinking of paper chains, have you considered making some hanging pompoms? this link shows some suggested ways - all very easy if you have some wool in Christmassy colours
I used to love making pom poms with wool when I was a child, and paper chains
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Crafty items for the day made and cleaned up after, smalls bathed and on the sofa watching a movie while I decide what to do for dinner. Well after my cuppa.
We aren't sending cards
Stamps cost a fortune. We will however finish the cards and send them to each other.
Tomorrow is Panto day I need to get organised for that. I forgot so I have nothing prepared. Will probably bake some really basic biscuits or something. Can be used in lunches this week too then.
Another busy week at school for the smalls and youngest has her nativity this week.“Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”0 -
December Plans
Money
CT £0/£50
Rent £25/£100
Budgeted Spends
[STRIKE]£2 Stay and play workshop DD2[/STRIKE]Paid
[STRIKE]£15 DD2 School Trip[/STRIKE] Paid
[STRIKE]£7 DD2 Nativity[/STRIKE] Paid
[STRIKE]£7 DD1 Nativity[/STRIKE] Paid
[STRIKE]£7 DS Nativity[/STRIKE] Paid
[STRIKE]£9 School Christmas Lunch[/STRIKE] Paid
[STRIKE]£10 School Christmas Fayre[/STRIKE] Not going to attend
[STRIKE]£9 School Santa's Grotto[/STRIKE] Not going to attend
[STRIKE]£5 Birthday/anniversary cards/stamps[/STRIKE] Not sending now
[STRIKE]£20 Xmas Gifts (To finish the smalls off)[/STRIKE] Not doing now
£3 Wrapping paper Won't need now
Things To Do
4th Dec - [STRIKE]Christmas Workshop DD2[/STRIKE]
5th Dec - [STRIKE]DD2 School Trip [/STRIKE]
6th Dec - [STRIKE][STRIKE]Pantomime (School)[/STRIKE][/STRIKE]
6th Dec - [STRIKE]SIL Birthday Card[/STRIKE]
7th Dec - [STRIKE]DD Respiratory appointment[/STRIKE]
9th Dec - Pantomime
11th Dec - [STRIKE]School Christmas Lunch[/STRIKE]
12th Dec - DD2 Nativity
13th Dec - [STRIKE]School Christmas Fayre[/STRIKE]
17th Dec - [STRIKE]Send Anniversary Card [/STRIKE]
18th Dec - DD1 Nativity
19th Dec - DS Nativity
19th Dec - [STRIKE]Send Relatives Birthday Card[/STRIKE]
Make Xmas Cards
[STRIKE]Send Xmas Cards[/STRIKE]
Not sure we will be able to make these now but if we have ingredients we will still do enough to go to the nursing home
Make Xmas Gifts
Deliver Xmas Gifts
Unbudgeted Spends“Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”0 -
I think crossing those things off your list is a good decision. School have had enough of your money already
The best things to go to are the nativities anyway, I used to love them.
I read your comment on Nicnak this afternoon. If people made you feel that bad then I really think you should stick to your guns about not letting them back in. At least until you're feeling stronger and more up to dealing with their nonsense.
Who won the paper chain competition :)xx0 -
It frees up quite a bit of time for us too! Still feel awful about the gifts for smalls though

My head is still all over the place with everything going on. I'm exhausted.
The girls won the paper chain competition I think there was some cheating going on :rotfl:“Once you hit rock bottom, that's where you perfectly stand; That's your chance of restarting, but restarting the way.”0 -
Just a thought re the medical evidence. I am probably preaching to the converted but ensure you take a copy of it in case it gets lost in the post or with the DLA people.0
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