Met someone else......

*max*

FBaby

morally I feel I have let my long term partner down by starting this affair (don't know if affair is the right terminology)

What else do you think it should be called? Not only it's an affair, but of the most deceiving sort.

I suppose what I'm saying I don't know which path to take.....

I bet not. Like most cheaters, you have no morals, only care about your own self. The reason why you are having an affair is because you are a coward and didn't want to risk losing something good, so you are testing both until you are satisfied with the choice and then will drop the bomb, whilst you escape better off.

Gosh I hope both your long term partner and new one drop you because that's what you deserve. I know I would have if I was either of them.

POPPYOSCAR

Come on people.

New poster, "not an affair" etc.....

Sure fire way to get you all going.

Marvel1

Twist plot, reveals to both woman and 10 year partner says she cheated too.

FBaby

Sure fire way to get you all going.

I so wish such people didn't exist, unfortunately they do and I'm across a number of them in real life...

AlwaysWorking

I honestly think you need to work out if you want to be with either woman. Personally I think they could both do much better than be in a relationship with someone who doesn't even define sleeping with someone else as having an affair :mad: but that aside....

You said it yourself, you're at a crossroads - life with these two women would be VERY different....with one you are planning early retirement and the other has young children and they will (rightfully) be her priority. Only you can decide what path you want your life to take.

Robisere

TWO previous divorces, now two more women on a string.

You want our advice?

Leave both women, go and be a hermit somewhere obscure and isolated for a few years. Give the female population a chance to meet someone with a moral compass.

That is all.

LKRDN_Morgan

You've gone to the trouble of creating a whole new account just to post this? You're worried what your 'internet' friends might think of you?

You are a strange little man. Oh and a cheating scumbag :beer:
That is all!

Tigsteroonie

I've been there

Nobody here can give you advice on which way you should go. You will be on the receiving end of a lot of vitriol, and also some quite sensible ideas about treating the women with respect which - as a cheater - you are not doing.

You know what you want to do. You thought she looked stunning, you asked for her number, you arranged to meet her. These were decisions you made. Have the courage of your convictions, end it with one or the other. We cannot tell you which.

Ivrytwr3

2 failed marriages and a long term partner you are cheating on?

It sounds like YOU'RE the problem here. It's great having the single life, but i expect there are women and children who have been hurt by your actions at some point and in the very near future too

Time to grow up..............