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  • pollyanna_26
    pollyanna_26 Posts: 4,839 Forumite
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    Monna Reading those words has brought a lump to my throat . I remember the early days when you couldn't bear to speak to us here as the hurt was too deep for words .
    Be happy and stay just as you are .
    You too have supported and held , comforted and cared for so many in real life and online and deserve a peaceful heart .
    Much love from polly and K xx
    It is better to light a single candle than to curse the darkness.

    There but for fortune go you and I.
  • pollyanna_26
    pollyanna_26 Posts: 4,839 Forumite
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    Thanks NM for that link . It really does the heart good . What a lot of ducklings ! Good job we aren't Mother Ducks .
    polly
    It is better to light a single candle than to curse the darkness.

    There but for fortune go you and I.
  • camelot1001
    camelot1001 Posts: 6,463 Forumite
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    Thanks Bigjenny, I'll give that a go.
  • MMF007
    MMF007 Posts: 1,375 Forumite
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    Thanks bigjenny, great link. Never thought to look on there! Doh.
    Am looking for rtc blueberries because DH loves blueberry jam...

    Monna, I don 't know your back story but when i read your post I just wanted to slip my hand in yours as you did that walk (Hope you don't mind me saying that). Wishing you many more moments of happiness.
    I have changed my work-life balance to a life-work balance. :grin:
  • burtha
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    Monna .. fantastic xxxx

    Sitting tonight muching my way through a large bag of crisps ... with a glass of wine .... well it was the remains from last night ...
    Trying not to think how far I need to run in the morning to burn this off ... :rotfl:

    Football tomorrow ...
    x
    £223/ £250 GC
  • shanks77
    shanks77 Posts: 1,182 Forumite
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    Good on you burtha, making things 'yours' will help you to move on.

    A quick question for you lovely ladies - How do you make plum jam? I have got a large bag full of plums, far too many for myself and my neighbours to eat so I have decided to make jam. My main query is when weighing the plums should the stones be in or out? Also, when the jam has cooked, should I try and remove all the skins? I know you lovely lot will keep me right!

    Back to de-stoning!

    I like to add cinnamon to mine makes a nice change. I use 10g cinnamon powder to 1kg stoned plums xx
  • ivyleaf
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    Monna Reading those words has brought a lump to my throat . I remember the early days when you couldn't bear to speak to us here as the hurt was too deep for words .
    Be happy and stay just as you are .
    You too have supported and held , comforted and cared for so many in real life and online and deserve a peaceful heart .
    Much love from polly and K xx

    Beautifully put. polly :T Thank you for this lovely post, which has brought a lump to my throat too!
  • fuddle
    fuddle Posts: 6,823 Forumite
    Here's to contentment monna. I think you might have stumbled across it again. x
  • silvasava
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    Camelot - I weigh with stones and skim the stones out with a slotted spoon after the sugar has been added. Saves a messy job! The recipe I use is from the old Dairy Cookbook. 3lb Plums, 3/4pint water and 3lb sugar - always comes out well.
    Monna - I was trying to get over to Bembridge this weekend but no joy - so pleased that your spirits are lifting and that awful black cloud is dissipating - Hugs.
    Small victories - sometimes they are all you can hope for but sometimes they are all you need - be kinder than necessary, for everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle
  • karcher
    karcher Posts: 2,069 Forumite
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    Pleased to hear that Monna :)

    Burtha well done on reclaiming your space and beginning the process of rebuilding a much better life for you and the kids :)
    'I'm sinking in the quicksand of my thought
    And I ain't got the power anymore'
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