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  • milann
    milann Posts: 11,402 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    Glad The Bear is settling in nicely and Dh health has improved.
    January spends - £587.58
  • Busterboo_2
    Busterboo_2 Posts: 27 Forumite
    Eighth Anniversary 10 Posts
    INOD hope all is well xx
    Jan - x2 Wins, Feb -
  • Chrystal
    Chrystal Posts: 2,000 Forumite
    Eighth Anniversary 1,000 Posts Photogenic Name Dropper
    Sending (((hugs))) and hoping everything is OK?  XXXX
    I Believe.....
    That it isn't always enough, to be forgiven by others.
    Sometimes, you have to learn to forgive yourself.

    Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery
    Today is a gift. That's why it is called the present.

    happiness isn't achieved by getting extra things,
    but by getting rid of the things that make you unhappy
  • redofromstart
    redofromstart Posts: 5,852 Forumite
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    Much sympathy from me, but I think it needs to be about giving yourself a boost rather than a shake.  I understand the guilt but please stop comparing yourself and re-read your signature.  Didn't you used to do gratitudes? Perhaps re-visiting that would help?

  • dawnybabes
    dawnybabes Posts: 3,356 Forumite
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    You’re entitled to be in a slump and it’s not a race to the bottom so long as you’re ok that’s fine 😀
    Sealed pot challenge 822

    Jan - £176.66 :j
  • beanielou
    beanielou Posts: 95,599 Ambassador
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Academoney Grad Mortgage-free Glee!
    Just because it’s tough for others doesn’t mean it’s not tough for you. Take care x
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.

    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.
    ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
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  • jwil
    jwil Posts: 21,989 Forumite
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    I agree, there will always be others with worse problems, but it doesn't make your mood slump any less valid.  Take care xx
    "Good financial planning is about not spending money on things that add no value to your life in order to have more money for the things that do". Eoin McGee
  • misstara
    misstara Posts: 3,992 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper I've been Money Tipped!
    Sorry to hear you're feeling in a slump - sending hugs :smile:
    Mortgage 26.4.25 - £108,500  1.8.25 - £106,362.86
    Mortgage overpayment savings - £3.33/£50
    Mortgage overpayments so far - £675.98
  • doingitanyway
    doingitanyway Posts: 9,965 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Mortgage-free Glee!
    Sending a hug and hope the dog can help pull you out of the slump too
    If you have built castles in the air, your work should not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put the foundations under them

    Emergency fund 100/1000
    Buffer fund 0/100
    Debt Free (again) 25/072025
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