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  • lovinituk
    lovinituk Posts: 5,711 Forumite
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    sam_m wrote: »
    They deleted it because they thought I should go to the GP which I did.
    That doesn't make any sense - much like the other thread that was deleted!
  • lincroft1710
    lincroft1710 Posts: 17,726 Forumite
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    Don't worry about what your brother has or hasn't got. Concentrate on improving your chances of getting a job, girlfriend or whatever. Envy is a negative trait, you have to be positive.
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  • polgara
    polgara Posts: 500 Forumite
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    Envy is an ugly trait - it poisons the mind and body
  • Sncjw
    Sncjw Posts: 3,511 Forumite
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    Be happy for your brother he would be the same for you. If you are real then you need an attitude check and change. Your not going to get things because you stamp your feet and have a big tantrum like a two year old.

    I know a guy with autism and he doesn't act like you when he doesn't get what he wants
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  • glosoli
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    Autism really isn't any excuse for the behaviour displayed unfortunately and everything points to a wind up but if on the small chance its a real then try develop your social skills.
  • sam_m
    sam_m Posts: 429 Forumite
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    BBH what do you mean the Never mind the social inadequacies. Will that stop me from ever getting a job because i am trying hard to be more social
  • IAmWales
    IAmWales Posts: 2,024 Forumite
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    sam_m wrote: »
    BBH what do you mean the Never mind the social inadequacies. Will that stop me from ever getting a job because i am trying hard to be more social

    They are going to hinder you until you learn how to deal with social situations, yes. Those training schemes that you think you're too good for would give you those skills.

    Does your counsellor specialise in autistic disorders? Telling you to just smile is pretty useless advice.
  • sam_m
    sam_m Posts: 429 Forumite
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    i don't think im too good for training schemes. Also he tells me i have to learn new techniques to keep calm. I know it didn't work this time but for the majority of the time it does, i haven't gotten cross like that for a couple of years now and that is a big thing for me
  • lovinituk
    lovinituk Posts: 5,711 Forumite
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    BobbyM wrote: »
    Don't give up Sam. Perhaps you could use this time to develop other skills which will look good when you apply for your next job. I recently came across some cheap online Microsoft Office training courses which might help: :spam:
    :spam::spam:
  • sam_m
    sam_m Posts: 429 Forumite
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    What do you mean lovinituk

    Are you saying that the microsoft office courses are not real?
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