feel so stupid

Valli

sam_m wrote: »

How the hell will i be able to go into that KFC again though, i actually like the food there and the staff are quite good at their job.

And there is a really nice female who i have seen who works there, i feel so silly because i could have gotten to know her. No i have no chance.

Piece of advice. Refer to her as a girl, or lady, or even a person rather than a 'female'.

jobbingmusician

And I'm sure that as you develop further you will find yourself a nice girlfriend. I obviously don't know you, but I do know that people on the autistic spectrum can sometimes find it helpful to be given clear guidelines as to how the world works. Which is why I told you that dating at work is generally thought to be a bad idea (indeed, some big companies even forbid it - they encourage one of the employees to resign if two employees are in a relationship). I do appreciate that being so upfront about this might not be helpful for you as an individual, but someone else reading this might find it helpful. And anyone in the world generally finds it easier to break life targets down into smaller chunks. In your case, you are trying to get a nice job and a GF - split these into two separate areas of your life, rather than trying to do both things at once.

sam_m

i am so angry, even more angry then ever now. I just found out my stepbrother has got a part time job. I HATE HIM!!!!

I hate myself why the hell did i do this, if i hadn't i would have had a good little job.

I really want to punch his pretty little face, how the hell has he got a job, girlfriend and money while i am sat at home lonely, without money and getting fatter because im so depressed.

IF SOMEONE COULD JUST GIVE ME ANOTHER CHANCE

daytona0

sam_m wrote: »

I really want to punch his pretty little face

Good idea!

That way you could get a job in the prison kitchen when they haul you into jail for GBH (or worse)

Done with this thread. Good luck sam m. I'll offer you some final useful advice and recommend that you show this whole thread to your counsellor/GP so that they can get a better insight into how to help you.

glosoli

sam_m wrote: »

i am so angry, even more angry then ever now. I just found out my stepbrother has got a part time job. I HATE HIM!!!!

I hate myself why the hell did i do this, if i hadn't i would have had a good little job.

I really want to punch his pretty little face, how the hell has he got a job, girlfriend and money while i am sat at home lonely, without money and getting fatter because im so depressed.

IF SOMEONE COULD JUST GIVE ME ANOTHER CHANCE

You really need to get your emotions in check if you really have any chance of getting a job, and more importantly, maintaining it into the future.

You say that you are sat at home and getting fat, well maybe doing some exercise or going to the gym would help, as this may blow of excess steam, get you fit, and help with your mental health at the same time. If you don't at least do this, then you aren't really trying to change, and who knows maybe in 10 years time might be in the same situation as you are now.

ohreally

For you to function, you're going to need help - if not for you then for others around you.

sam_m

I can't get the the bloody gym because i only have £297 in my account. That is all i have

marliepanda

sam_m wrote: »

I can't get the the bloody gym because i only have £297 in my account. That is all i have

Go for a run or a brisk walk. That's free.

Ronaldo_Mconaldo

Did anyone else get any PMs from the OP? I got 4 and haven't responded to any but here's a flavour:

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marliepanda

Ronaldo_Mconaldo wrote: »

Did anyone else get any PMs from the OP? I got 4 and haven't responded to any but here's a flavour:

I think I'd prefer one of the people 'on a lower level' than the OP.

They absolutely have a better chance of employment, put it that way.