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  • sam_m
    sam_m Posts: 429 Forumite
    Somebody had a lucky escape, but I'm not sure it was him.

    what do you mean. i think i would be a good worker. it was their loss even though i should not have acted the way i did
  • marliepanda
    marliepanda Posts: 7,186 Forumite
    sam_m wrote: »
    But im not, i saw a link on you tube where this person with autism was screaming, shouting, hitting his head on the walls and im not like that, i would never be like that.

    All i did was swear and told them they were a terrible company and how i don't know why i thought i wanted to work there in the first place, i know i should have handled the situation better but it could have been much worse. It was not even a proper meltdown, i haven't had a proper meltdown since i was about 13 and im now 24.

    Well you shout and scream and kick off, so short of banging your head your most of the way there.

    In many eyes it appears like a 'proper meltdown' you need to stop comparing yourself and seeing yourself as 'high end' when you have issues and you need to solve them. Just saying you're not 'as bad as that' isn't helpful and appears to be untrue...
  • marliepanda
    marliepanda Posts: 7,186 Forumite
    sam_m wrote: »
    what do you mean. i think i would be a good worker. it was their loss even though i should not have acted the way i did

    It is not their loss. Sorry. You showed you were unstable and unwilling to compromise.

    Work on your faults and improve them. You are acting like there's nothing to fix.
  • sam_m
    sam_m Posts: 429 Forumite
    So how the hell am i going to find a girlfriend if you say i have issues. I don't want to die a lonely man, i want to be loved, i want to love. You say i have issues and that is fine but i don't want to have these issues forever.

    If i do no girl will come near me, i will be on my own in a cold home at 80 years old at xmas dying and that is my nightmare, its my nightmare that i aways think of and i would hate it to come true
  • sam_m
    sam_m Posts: 429 Forumite
    ok, so if you were me how would you fix these issues then. I want to change.
  • jobbingmusician
    jobbingmusician Posts: 20,347 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Name Dropper
    sam_m wrote: »
    What do you mean lovinituk

    Are you saying that the microsoft office courses are not real?

    The courses are real enough. The poster was spamming the forum and trying to use it for free advertising.
    Ex board guide. Signature now changed (if you know, you know).
  • sam_m wrote: »
    what do you mean. i think i would be a good worker. it was their loss even though i should not have acted the way i did

    They didn't decide not to give you the job because you acted like that at interview. They didn't give you the job because if you act like at interview, you will with an almost complete guarantee of certainty act like that at work. It's pointless saying you won't.
  • The courses are real enough. The poster was spamming the forum and trying to use it for free advertising.

    Well they are probably real in as much as they exist. Whether they are of any use is another question.
  • daytona0
    daytona0 Posts: 2,358 Forumite
    sam_m wrote: »
    So how the hell am i going to find a girlfriend if you say i have issues. I don't want to die a lonely man, i want to be loved, i want to love. You say i have issues and that is fine but i don't want to have these issues forever.

    If i do no girl will come near me, i will be on my own in a cold home at 80 years old at xmas dying and that is my nightmare, its my nightmare that i aways think of and i would hate it to come true

    Well at least you can empathise with those girls you called ugly earlier on because they can't speak properly!

    If you are not tolerant of others than why should others be tolerant if you?
  • sam_m
    sam_m Posts: 429 Forumite
    so what do you suggest then. you say i would act like that again but what do you suggest to stop it from happening.

    and how do you mean i can empathise with them.
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