feel so stupid

lovinituk

Blackpool_Saver wrote: »

This poster just private messaged me and was very rude. I have been on here for years and have never been spoken to in the way he just did to me, it was disgusting

Report it.

Towser

Why is it your perception that your father treats you like a little kid?

Is it because of your disability and he is trying to help you?

Sncjw

Maybe he treats him like a little kid because he is acting like a little kid.

ScorpiondeRooftrouser

Towser wrote: »

Keep trying for the jobs, nice ones. I'm sure KFC would not be a nice one as not all customers are nice. I have seen some really rude customers which would really depress me. I think you had a lucky escape and gained a bit of experience.

Somebody had a lucky escape, but I'm not sure it was him.

polgara

You have some very unpleasant way of describing people 'mental nutcase'?

sam_m

I Was not rude to Blackpool Saver

This is the message i sent the poster




What do you mean. I am not a low end thick autistic bloke that needs medication. I just get depressed and i did that when i swore at KFC at the interview and told themselfs to go F themselves.

i have medication but dont need it for my autisim




I was not telling Blackpool Saver to go F themselves it is what i told KFC to do. I actually appreciated the suggestion that the poster gave me

polgara

'Low end thick autistic bloke' - you get worse and worse

sam_m

But im not, i saw a link on you tube where this person with autism was screaming, shouting, hitting his head on the walls and im not like that, i would never be like that.

All i did was swear and told them they were a terrible company and how i don't know why i thought i wanted to work there in the first place, i know i should have handled the situation better but it could have been much worse. It was not even a proper meltdown, i haven't had a proper meltdown since i was about 13 and im now 24.

polgara

You might not be like that but the fact that you can't see how offensive your words are demonstrates you don't have the social skills to understand how offensive you are being. My very loved relative has severe episodes and I am incensed by your phrasing - he is not a 'low end thick autistic' person.

sam_m

well i didn't realise i was being offensive and im sorry you took it the wrong way. im trying to understand how to get better social skills but its not easy. Thats my problem with my autism, its not the episodes that your relative has, its the social skills and getting upset, i feel like im screaming inside, when im in class i just want to start talking but something inside my brain is stopping me.

i don't want to hurt my brother, but when he was kissing his gf on new year eve i was crying inside, i want/wanted someone to care enough for me and do that to me. I get so sad sometimes.

i aways manage to mess things up