Is it me ?

Kim_kim

ERICS_MUM wrote: »

To be honest I just could not be bothered trying to make it work, I'd be off ! He won't change and I don't believe he is mature enough for a loving relationship.

Sorry to be so blunt, perhaps I'm too intolerant or impatient !

Good luck in resolving the issues.

EM x

I don't know how old you are but I feel I've got less tolerant as I've got older.
I'm divorced & I live alone.
I would only live with a man again if he did half the cooking & chores.
I have a cleaner - but anything that's left over I mean.
I wouldn't be coming in 7 nights a week cooking for someone.

If I ever live with someone again it will be an equal partnership, in every way. I don't need a man to support me, but I'm not going to clean up & wait on someone.

My friend has the right idea, she was internet dating & said she wants good sex & nothing more. No domestic drudgery.
She's actually found it to!

DavidF

Never mind the op I'm showing my oh this thread and telling her I am demanding same deal as op's hubby/partner has....I shall report back on my endeavors. :rotfl::eek::eek:

SuzieSue

DavidF wrote: »

.I shall report back on my endeavors. :rotfl::eek::eek:

I very much doubt that you will be in a fit state to type once your OH reads your demands.

enthusiasticsaver

.j.e.j wrote: »

Surprisingly, a lot of gamers are actually getting on a bit! :rotfl:
It's not just youths and teens, - a lot of men in their 40s and 50s spend hours playing computer games when they get in from work.

Yes, that was an uncalled for comment I must say. I am prone to a bit of candy crush myself. I retract it.

They should still pull their weight around the house.

DavidF

DavidF wrote: »

Never mind the op I'm showing my oh this thread and telling her I am demanding same deal as op's hubby/partner has....I shall report back on my endeavors. :rotfl::eek::eek:

SuzieSue wrote: »

I very much doubt that you will be in a fit state to type once your OH reads your demands.

Been told that I have a whole new list of jobs to get on with after I finish building a brick barbecue lol. Just trying to lighten the mood of the thread haha. I did show my oh btw and she actually said "Oh have you walked the dog yet tonight ?"....Bloody priorities eh ? Oh and as a footnote good luck op I think you are going to need it.

mrs_Badger

Did he live on his own before you two moved in together? Surely he knows how to run a house to some extent.

My husband works full time, I work part time from home, but he still does about 50/50 chores. I do all the cooking, he does all the washing up. Make it routine and you don't need to ask or tell, it's just how it is.