The end of procrastination and disorganisation.......

in_need_of_direction

It's the fees I need not just the work!

Chrystal

Hope you're feeling better PH.
Sometimes a rant lets out the pent up frustration. ((hugs)) X

doingitanyway

I hope things are okay?

redofromstart

Hope things calmed down for you PH

Cherryfudge

Am I safe to send a hug, or will I be bowled over by a flurry of clearing activity?

If you can channel even a bit of this emotion into progress, you will do fantastically.

parsniphead

Thanks all, you are all brilliant.

It's safe to come out as I'm calmer now.... Well a bit;). I won't go too much into it as its one of those subjects which could potentially cause chaos on here. All I will say is that I was so angry that I work my bits and bobs off, not only in a paid jobs but also working for myself while step son is bringing in 1.5 times what I do each month and has never done a job in his 24 years because....his words 'I don't see why I should have to do a boring job like other people (said in a very snooty voice)', and he has not. What makes him so effing special. Definately his mothers son.;).

Anyway after a major strop on Saturday night after he had left (I was already having a bit of a down day like you do), I decided that I'm not doing the self employed thing again, not paying any extra tax for the lazy little git. Why should I bother, blah, blah, blah. Anyway, calm now. Stupid mood moved on. I'm not going to stop improving my life because the little so and so wound me up.

BUT if his snooty a$$, know it all girlfriend looks down her nose at me once more or makes another smart mouth comment I may be away for some time if you know what I mean.

On a positive note the lady who I made the mother of the groom dress for sent me a text on Sunday with a photo and a lovely message of thanks. A HUGE relief. I spent Saturday imagining skirts dropping off, seams splitting, etc. I really can be a huge plonker at times.:o

Anyway, I'm going to get some jeans in a while. Hopefully it will be a one shop special. :rotfl:

Have a good day all.

Cherryfudge

Don't let them get to you - we don't want to be without our parsnip while you're doing time!:rotfl:

Best of luck with the jeans shopping - I recommend M&S for fit but even there I can't always find what I want. Maybe I should recommend the charity shops because I have had some lovely jeans from there!

redofromstart

Hope you found some jeans?

Much sympathy from me, I have steps too and its very difficult sometimes.

abba1772

No wonder you got mad I would have been pi&@ed off to, my sister is like that she's 31 and never worked a day in her puff where as I've worked since I was 16 and all my kids have been told the same, work hard and know you've did it for yourselves xx

parsniphead

Thank you all for your comments. You are all so supportive. :T

Firstly.......I have jeans and a jumper. :j

Secondly.....I am calmer.

Thirdly..... Don't shout......i have had to buy an overlocker. It's an essential piece of kit for professional result. Mine had broken when i did the dress and doing zigzag and trimming added a long time onto the make time. I have a number of projects coming through now so it will earn back the cost of it quite quickly. To be honest after 27 years of owning one going back to zig zag was :eek::eek::eek:

Today I have to wait in so I'm going to complete the rubbing down of the TV cabinet and do lots of cleaning. Lots and lots of cleaning. I also need to put the curtains back up an and steam them. This will get them off the stairs.

Anyway off i go. Have a good day. X