Trying To Concieve

li'l_p

Right... CD1 for me tomorrow. AF has FINALLY arrived after the few light shows I've had, I did wonder whether it was ever going to kick in properly. That's not bad going, and means my cycle has been 39 days this time instead of 31, but I'm not surprised as I was ill mid month so I think the 'stress' of that has knocked me back. I'm actually really pleased with that.

Just need to focus on getting a bit more jiggy this month.... :shocked:

Supergirl_3

Hi l'ill P the jiggy bit is the bit to remember to do
Just out of curiosity have you done a test? Just you say you were a bit ill mid month and the cycle was longer than expected and the light shows.
Don't want to get your hopes up or nothing, but I am finding there is nothing straight forward or obvious with us females! xxxxx

searching_me

supergirl only just got your message as my net cut out but when i had my ectopic i had no real pain until i would of been about 6 weeks i went docs and said i looked ok and then at 8 weeks i had bleeding on saturday had an internal scan on monday morning at 10am and was in surgery 2pm its a very scary thing but they would of noticed it early if the 1st doc didnt just ignore my pain... monday morning i was rollin around in pain they said i could of lost my tube... so all i say darlin is if your really worried dont take no for answer i wish i hadnt surgery sent me very ill ... not to scare you but some docs are just idiots i'll have everything crossed for you darlin xxx
p.s my pain be it only slight is on the left but i just remember that when i went for my surgery they had to do key hole at that side to check my tube so thinkin that maybe causing it but i dont know.. us women we go through hell and back xxx

nikkinoo_3

Hi Supergirl - I'm hoping your mind is put at rest next week and that everything's OK. Do let us know... x

waddy80

Ok so I had a BFN this morning. It's CD35 out of 35 for me. I had a small brown show last week (sorry if TMI) which never happens for me so I saw it as an implantation bleed. I had convinced myself we had done it this month.
I would expect to be feeling like S!!T if AF was coming tomorrow. She is normally on time. I normally have spots all over my face, backache for 2 days before and sore boobs, but nothing. I have had some nausea this week, and sore boobs but they stopped earlier in the week.

So if AF is not here in 2 days I will re-test, but I'm not hopeful. (I was soooo positive earlier this month, now I'm in the depths of despair! I even had a cry this morning)

What a rollercoaster we have all put ourselves on! I must find a way to deal with the pressure and not syptom spot. I'm thinking of taking up swimming again, as I think the excercise may help.

P.S. I am using early detection tests from access diagnostics, I realise that a normal test may not pick a PG up this early.

Mrs_Toast

Hi everybody, I've come to join the TTC club. I cam off the pill the beginning of July and first AF arrived yesterday. I'm looking forward to lots of BDing (found my sex drive again) and a BFP soon.:j

li'l_p

Supergirl wrote: »

Hi l'ill P the jiggy bit is the bit to remember to do
Just out of curiosity have you done a test? Just you say you were a bit ill mid month and the cycle was longer than expected and the light shows.
Don't want to get your hopes up or nothing, but I am finding there is nothing straight forward or obvious with us females! xxxxx

No, I haven't done a test. I know people can still continue to bleed when pregnant, but I am certain that this is not the case with me. I think AF just got off to a slow start (it threatened a bit and then yesterday finally arrived with avengeance). I'm glad really because I was starting to worry what was going on. I am just glad that I seem to be a lot regular since coming off the pill than I ever imagined I would be which is nice. Considering I have been on the pill for the past 8-9 years, I hadn'd expected it to snap back as quick as it has.

jiblets1

Hi Mrs Toast, welcome to the ride....

Supergirl_3

Hi all. Do you want the latest?
I really have to laugh to keep myself sanish!!!!

Was at A and E 4am this morning in agony, from head to foot all down my left hand side - they did another test which came back negative but said i had a urine infection (which has been whats causing the pain according to them!), wanted to give me anti biotics - i said i wont take any that will harm a baby (they were quite prepared to give me them though as their test was negative again!) ....so they were forced to do a blood test, and the doctor rang me all apologetically as my numbers are......... 32.6, so i got confirmation and am now officially in the system!

I've got to go back on tuesday to get them rechecked to check everything is ok as they are concerned about the bleeding and just incase these pains arent from a UTI, but this means I should be able to test on a 25mlu now and even though i'm having a period i would bet my numbers have risen!

Now the stabbing pain i was getting i bet that was implantation! which just so happened to co-incide with the day i got my period later on, and properly the next day, so i must have ovulated late or something and didnt have time to switch off af! which wouldnt be a real period in the true sense, sympathy bleeding they call it (great!)

The only thing is these anti biotics are causing me stomach pains, I can't win!!
tell me it'll get better LOL.

I'm going to keep a blog so when it's grown up it can see just what i went through in week one!!! I've never had such a worrying week in my life or been in so much pain!!!

Anyway still erring on the side of caution till I get my new blood test on tuesday, but i think everything is really going to turn out just fine (I'm another matter lol).

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Hi to mrs Toast

and babydust to all! xxxxxxxxxxxx

jiblets1

So that's a definate yes then supergirl?

Excellent news! And well done you for knowing your own body well enough to know something was different.
Congrats.