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Official Trying to Conceive - Thread 13

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  • big5
    big5 Posts: 370 Forumite
    Took a digital test this morning just to confirm and it was positive (see how well I did at not thinking about it and waiting until the weekend! :rotfl: ).

    Good luck to you all, got my fingers and toes crossed for bfps and sticky beans all round cos you're a lovely, lovely bunch! :happyhear
  • Milliebob
    Milliebob Posts: 248 Forumite
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    edited 15 June 2016 at 3:41PM
    Hooray! Congratulations big!!! Have a happy and healthy nine months xxx

    Now, does anybody know how we amend the bfp list on the first post?
    Happiness can be found in even the darkest of places, if one only remembers to turn on the light - Albus Dumbledore
    Happy Comper since Dec 2013
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    Wedding 21st May 2015
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  • angel11
    angel11 Posts: 411 Forumite
    Congratulations Big here's to a healthy & happy 9 months!!!

    Millie I'm afraid I've no idea how to edit the 1st post.

    So tested again with frer (what a mission trying to find one :mad:) & it was bfn. Only to be expected I guess, but my hormones still feel like they're all over the place. And I'm still getting spotting (albeit it a lot lighter), a little bit worried about it now tbh ...
  • midget_1907
    midget_1907 Posts: 99 Forumite
    big congratulations!
    cats I was sorry to see your news. Hope you and your doing OK.

    angel is it possible your period was in fact implantation bleeding? If so I think it can take a few days for the Hcg levels to rise enough for a hpt.
  • angel11
    angel11 Posts: 411 Forumite
    Midget I'd thought about that, but it's now 4/5 days since AF arrived, so I would've expected to see bfp by now
  • ButterflyBabe
    ButterflyBabe Posts: 73 Forumite
    edited 16 June 2016 at 12:15AM
    I'm so confused right now. Ovia says I'm not due to test for another 3 days and AF is not due for another 4 days but I've just been to the loo and wiped and it looks like AF had announced her arrival early. Unlike last month when she was late.

    Why is TTC so god damn cruel. I know women who can conceive without trying and without really wanting to. It's so unfair, when all my OH and I is to have our own child.

    Sorry for sounding bitter, I'm just so fed up with getting bad news every month :(
  • angel11
    angel11 Posts: 411 Forumite
    I'm sorry Butterfly it really is so so difficult, and I think the bitterness is unfortunately part of the the package sometimes - I know I certainly get bitter at the amount of people I hear of who seem to get pg at the drop of a hat & without trying. I think that's why I appreciate this forum so much.
  • angel11
    angel11 Posts: 411 Forumite
    Two Week Wait (BFP Hopefuls)
    CD17 athensgeorgia - 3DPO :cool:
    CD28 Milliebob - 9DPO :cool:
    CD47 Meepmeep - 26DPO :cool:

    "If in doubt - BD" Zone

    CD20 clarabell1984 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD20 newthrift - Awaiting ov :o
    CD35 easilydistracted - Awaiting ov :o
    CD38 big5 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD42 Alex_88 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD45 little angel - Awaiting ov :o
    CD76 Slinky_Selina - Awaiting ov :o
    CD91 the_insider - Awaiting ov :o

    "Wine and Chocolate" zone
    CD1 ButterflyBabe - Awaiting ov :o
    CD6 angel11 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD8 midget_1907 - Awaiting ov :o
    CD8 A0503 - Awaiting ov :o

    Those we haven't heard from in a while

    Those with * sometimes uses conceive plus/preseed.
    The names in blue has a link to their Fertility Friend chart.
    When posting updates, can you please do them in Magenta so it's easy to spot. This thread is all about support, so remember to click thanks on as many posts as you can! It makes us all feel loved.

    For those posting on smartphones or tablets the code for magenta is
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    Please let me know if anything needs editing (including the zone you are in) and I will try to keep up.
  • A0503
    A0503 Posts: 90 Forumite
    Butterfly - I really feel for you as this was exactly me a week ago. I had brand new symptoms and was convinced I was pg. I am on month 3 now so have been monitoring any changes really closely, but you probably find before I was TTC I had those same symptoms before AF and never even noticed them. I also remember having AF start early or late and it never even crossing my mind it could be pg related. Now I know what to look out for its a lot harder. At least you can get to your fertile week a bit sooner. TTC does make life seem very unfair sometimes. xx
  • I am so grateful for this thread and for everyone in it. Being able to come here and vent is really what's keeping almost sane. It's so reassuring to know that I'm not the only person going through this.

    I've decided I'm going to delete Ovia and just monitor my cycle based on what my body's doing. I've been obsessing over what Ovia predicts and believing what it's been telling me whenever I record my symptoms.

    Oh well onwards and upwards ladies, today's the start of a new cycle. I'm off to a wedding at the weekend so at least I can let my hair down a bit and have a few wines without feeling guilty xx
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