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Here we can all be heard for a little while. Part 3

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  • tea_lover
    tea_lover Posts: 8,261 Forumite
    Do you have another interview today melly?
  • Izadora
    Izadora Posts: 2,047 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts
    ((((WaS))))
    As other people have said, please don't think that it's your fault or somehow makes you less worthy of love. There are so many reasons why she may have decided to cut contact but they're all a reflection on her, not you.
    whitewing wrote: »
    How do you lot pick your moments and choose who gets to know what - preferably with examples.

    It's not something I've ever really considered but I think I tend to keep my feelings very much to myself until I know someone really well and trust them completely. I'm also far more likely to share information with people if I know that they've experienced similar. For example, I was having an "I'm fat and hideous and am not fit to be seen in public" moment when getting ready to go out a couple of months ago. Trying to explain it to my boyfriend was hard going because it's not something he's ever experienced but "the outfit I was going to wear tonight didn't fit" was all I had to say to one of my friends for her to understand exactly where I was coming from.

    Despite being very private most of the time, there really is something to be said for "In vino veritas" - give me a drink or six and I have no filter :D
  • Georgiegirl256
    Georgiegirl256 Posts: 7,005 Forumite
    tea_lover wrote: »
    I tell no one anything. It's a flipping nightmare!

    I'm the same. I hate talking about myself and my problems as it makes me feel awkward sometimes, and besides, I don't want anyone's pity. Might be stupid, but that's how I feel.
  • mellymoo74
    mellymoo74 Posts: 6,529 Forumite
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    I have 2 tea
    At the same time!

    I am going to the closer one about to deff the Coventry one again (it's too far)
  • tea_lover
    tea_lover Posts: 8,261 Forumite
    I work in Cov and it's too far for me too lol.

    Good luck poppet :)
  • mellymoo74
    mellymoo74 Posts: 6,529 Forumite
    Tenth Anniversary 1,000 Posts Name Dropper
    30 miles each way on motorway from hell

    Am at interview eep
  • Izadora
    Izadora Posts: 2,047 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts
    Good luck Melly!!
  • jobbingmusician
    jobbingmusician Posts: 20,347 Forumite
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    Sending good thoughts.

    Yes, I tend not to tell people how I am feeling, either. Probably not the healthiest way to deal with things. I just get bad tempered! :o
    Ex board guide. Signature now changed (if you know, you know).
  • calleyw
    calleyw Posts: 9,896 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper I've been Money Tipped!
    Afternoon, Not sure why but today seems to be dragging.

    I have already had my lunch !!!

    Anyway thought I would add some bunny pictures taken today

    IMG_0169_zpsl2dwmtaw.jpg

    IMG_0170_zpsizzdc4w9.jpg

    I do apologise for them being a bit blurry!!!!

    Had a delivery from amazon by there own carriers and they had chucked the box over my 6ft fence:eek: no card through the door. And good job its not breakable. I know they are tight schedules. Today is wash day. So hanging it on the line. But if it had been raining for a few days I would not have gone out there.

    right going to find something todo.

    Everyone take care. And Melly :D good luck with the interview

    Yours

    Calley
    Hope for everything and expect nothing!!!

    Good enough is almost always good enough -Prof Barry Schwartz

    If it scares you, it might be a good thing to try -Seth Godin
  • mellymoo74
    mellymoo74 Posts: 6,529 Forumite
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    She's lovely calley xx
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