Deal Breakers in relationships

Petra_70

pollyanna24 wrote: »

Female

If they wanted kids. I'm done with reproducing.

Fair enough! I know a chap actually who was with a lass who was 12 years younger than him (him 40, her 28,) and they had been together a year or so. They split when she made it clear she wants kids. He was 40 and has 4 (youngest was 10 I think..) He definitely wanted no more. Fair enough if you have already done it!

PasturesNew wrote: »

Female, single.

My list is so long .... it's why I'm single.

You can randomly chuck in: fat, short, ginger, bearded, tattoos, loud, arrogant, idiot prankster, clueless, thoughtless, careless, drugs, booze .....

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl: Great list!

Petra_70

Popping off for a bit now. Looking forward to seeing what people have been saying when I come back later.

onomatopoeia99

Male

Angry / shouty behavior.
Lack of independence / "clingy" behavior
Deliberate ignorance and refusing to think
Intolerant or bigoted behavior
Lack of trust, e.g. wanting to know my email / social media passwords

There's some sexual stuff as well, but none of you need to know that

Guest101

Male:


Someone who didn't work, couldn't cook, fat, low education, along with the basic personality clashes (political views etc.)

Mrs_Ryan

I'm female
No overbearing personalities, anyone who has a problem with the fact I'm teetotal, anyone who takes illegal drugs or drinks excessively; anyone with hygiene issues, no Northampton Saints fans (joke!) although I am serious about the fact I couldn't be with anyone who hated rugby any male with very long hair, oh and possessiveness. Don't like that.

Ooh this is my 9000th post

System

Male

Someone taller than me, someone who has no sense of humour. Someone who gets jealous and someone who cant trust you.

Good to see you making a fun thread Petra, its a refreshing change from the controversial type you favour

Chlorine7

Female

Cannot be
Stingy
Boring
Bald
Vegetarian

Must be taller than me.

Gloomendoom

Male.

Farting, poor hygiene, potty mouth, smoking, tattoos, piercings, bad teeth, big bums/tums, low intellect, low or non-existent libido, dislikes cats.

Fat isn't deal breaker for me, although lack of slimness is.

MandM90

Female

Complete lack of ambition and/or zest for life
Prudish/unadventurous sexually
Lazy
Rude/arrogant
Blames everyone else for their problems
Reads the Daily Mail
Would prefer non smoker or only social smoker...can't stand people who smoke in their houses
Someone horrendously overweight, or who doesn't look after themselves at all

Positive:

Sensitive
Sensible with money
Enjoys the simple things
Love of real ale, good wine, gardening, outdoors all bonuses

itsanne

Petra_70 wrote: »

I think you misunderstand sorry.

What I am asking is what would you not tolerate in someone if you were looking for a new relationship?

I knew. It was intended as tongue in cheek - obviously fell flat though!