We’d like to remind Forumites to please avoid political debate on the Forum.

This is to keep it a safe and useful space for MoneySaving discussions. Threads that are – or become – political in nature may be removed in line with the Forum’s rules. Thank you for your understanding.

📨 Have you signed up to the Forum's new Email Digest yet? Get a selection of trending threads sent straight to your inbox daily, weekly or monthly!
The Forum now has a brand new text editor, adding a bunch of handy features to use when creating posts. Read more in our how-to guide

Husband or wife - Who's the better cook in your household?

1246

Comments

  • I would imagine that most women would find this hard to answer, as it's only them that does the cooking.

    Men claim they are better; 'most chefs are male blah blah blah,' well put your money where your mouth is then, and share the cooking at home!

    (cue a shed load of men claiming they DO share the cooking at home. ;) )

    I think you'll probably find that is not true. I think most couples at least share the responsibility of cooking nowadays.

    Depending on who's home at tea time, then that's who does tea. Unless it's a slow cooker meal and then of course that gets put on in the morning.

    We're both good cooks, but I think DH maybe just has the edge due to him being better at seasoning, timing and his ability to handle fish. _pale_
  • Gloomendoom
    Gloomendoom Posts: 16,551 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 10,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    I would imagine that most women would find this hard to answer, as it's only them that does the cooking.

    Men claim they are better; 'most chefs are male blah blah blah,' well put your money where your mouth is then, and share the cooking at home!

    I suppose it depends on what you value more highly: quality or quantity.
  • I'm a bit unimaginative when it comes to cooking. Meat and two veg I'm fine with, but it can get a bit boring. OH on the other hand does brilliant curries, risottos, chillies, stir fries and a mean roast. He always does the cooking on a Sunday, while I am doing housework and washing. Although mainly retired, I still do an evening job three times a week so he is used to cooking for himself anyway. Works for us!
  • i live on my own so obviously do all the cooking, im a pretty good cook and can/will attempt most things. I don't use recipes, just chuck in whatever seems to be at hand and usually end up with a decent plate of food. Sometimes if I start out making a shepherds pie, I might change halfway through and it will become a lasagne.


    my ex was a nightmare in the kitchen, he thought he was an amazing cook because he watched all the daytime cookery programmes, so could make lots of meals in various cuisines in theory. However when it came to the actual cooking of these delights, the amount of swearing emanating from the kitchen was unbearable, and I had clearly purchased the wrong type of eggs because the omelette didn't look or taste the same as it did on the TV
    Mortgage = [STRIKE]£113,495 (May 2009)[/STRIKE] £67462.74 Jun 2019
  • DUKE
    DUKE Posts: 7,360 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker I've been Money Tipped!
    Me for roast dinners .... Him for cakes ... Although this is very rare.
  • Spirit_2
    Spirit_2 Posts: 5,546 Forumite
    1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    I used to do almost all cooking however longterm illness and rehab for me has allowed OH to practice and gain confidence. He will have a go at most things but I am home all day now so do more cooking, He does somethings so well that we do not want to eat my version of them anymore.

    Him
    Hm pizza
    Bread- many types
    Roast Dinners
    Bolognese
    Cooked breakfast
    BBQ -totally his domain, wonderful shoulder of lamb and pork belly


    Me
    Everyday meals from whatever is in the fridge/larder
    Fish
    Vegetarian
    Game
    Puddings
    custards
    Pastry & pies
    cakes
  • System
    System Posts: 178,439 Community Admin
    10,000 Posts Photogenic Name Dropper
    I would imagine that most women would find this hard to answer, as it's only them that does the cooking.

    Men claim they are better; 'most chefs are male blah blah blah,' well put your money where your mouth is then, and share the cooking at home!

    (cue a shed load of men claiming they DO share the cooking at home. ;) )
    4oodHcn.jpg
    This is a system account and does not represent a real person. To contact the Forum Team email forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com
  • tea_lover
    tea_lover Posts: 8,261 Forumite
    Myself and recent ex were both as bad as each other. I wish I could bring myself to enjoy cooking but I really don't. Now I live on my own again I'm back to toast and pasta... last night I burnt the pasta :D
  • Izadora
    Izadora Posts: 2,047 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts
    I am but I've been cooking since I was a kid so am a lot more comfortable with it.
    He's not a bad cook, and getting better the more he practises, but does usually need to have a recipe to follow and the kitchen tends to look like a bombsite once he's finished.
  • My wife beats me hands down
This discussion has been closed.
Meet your Ambassadors

🚀 Getting Started

Hi new member!

Our Getting Started Guide will help you get the most out of the Forum

Categories

  • All Categories
  • 354.6K Banking & Borrowing
  • 254.5K Reduce Debt & Boost Income
  • 455.5K Spending & Discounts
  • 247.5K Work, Benefits & Business
  • 604.4K Mortgages, Homes & Bills
  • 178.6K Life & Family
  • 261.9K Travel & Transport
  • 1.5M Hobbies & Leisure
  • 16.1K Discuss & Feedback
  • 37.7K Read-Only Boards

Is this how you want to be seen?

We see you are using a default avatar. It takes only a few seconds to pick a picture.