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Nice People Thread No. 15, a Cyber Summer
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PasturesNew wrote: »You've done this before!
If it were me there'd be varying sized piles of purple gunk ...and a few sprinkles....
We were baby stepped through the smallest of details and some of the things that I went "Oh blooming Nora, there is no way I will be able to do that", were surprisingly easy. Others which I thought would be easy peasy took me about 5 attempts!
The woman next to me was going ahead in the stages, using the cutters to get her shapes etc....I had to wait to be told in minute detail (sometimes twice) before I could move onto the next step.We made it! All three boys have graduated, it's been hard work but it shows there is a possibility of a chance of normal (ish) life after a diagnosis (or two) of ASD. It's not been the easiest route but I am so glad I ignored everything and everyone and did my own therapies with them.
Eldests' EDS diagnosis 4.5.10, mine 13.1.11 eekk - now having fun and games as a wheelchair user.0 -
Doozergirl wrote: »Ditto. sometimes anyone can across the wrong way without meaning to. I'm still feeling incredibly blessed at obtaining my free valet, despite being a bit of a minion and not driving a 5 Series.
I am confused, but happy to see you, lir! You must know that your contribution has been a driving force to this thread and that I am sure no one would ever have intended to upset you.
Edit: I miss you
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Sorry if I was the one to offend you lir. Good to see you back.Please stay safe in the sun and learn the A-E of melanoma: A = asymmetry, B = irregular borders, C= different colours, D= diameter, larger than 6mm, E = evolving, is your mole changing? Most moles are not cancerous, any doubts, please check next time you visit your GP.
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Cakes look fab Sue, sounds like you had great fun.Please stay safe in the sun and learn the A-E of melanoma: A = asymmetry, B = irregular borders, C= different colours, D= diameter, larger than 6mm, E = evolving, is your mole changing? Most moles are not cancerous, any doubts, please check next time you visit your GP.
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Sue your cakes are lovely! I particularly love the one with the tiny tea set on it0
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vivatifosi wrote: »Cakes look fab Sue, sounds like you had great fun.
Brilliant fun and the whole workshop only costs £20. That includes the provision of the base cake, all icing etc and we get to take the cakes home at the end of the session.
The one who runs them is a Facebook success. She started advertising making birthday cakes on a local group page and she got so many orders that she was then able to open a shop, she now has a very successful business loved by locals.
I'm signed up for more workshops including one where I learn to make sugar paste flowers...hmm, that one might well be a challenge too far but hey ho, at least I will have given it a try.We made it! All three boys have graduated, it's been hard work but it shows there is a possibility of a chance of normal (ish) life after a diagnosis (or two) of ASD. It's not been the easiest route but I am so glad I ignored everything and everyone and did my own therapies with them.
Eldests' EDS diagnosis 4.5.10, mine 13.1.11 eekk - now having fun and games as a wheelchair user.0 -
Sue your cakes are lovely! I particularly love the one with the tiny tea set on it
The cups were a begger, the teapot surprisingly easy!We made it! All three boys have graduated, it's been hard work but it shows there is a possibility of a chance of normal (ish) life after a diagnosis (or two) of ASD. It's not been the easiest route but I am so glad I ignored everything and everyone and did my own therapies with them.
Eldests' EDS diagnosis 4.5.10, mine 13.1.11 eekk - now having fun and games as a wheelchair user.0 -
We were baby stepped through the smallest of details and some of the things that I went "Oh blooming Nora, there is no way I will be able to do that", were surprisingly easy. Others which I thought would be easy peasy took me about 5 attempts!
The woman next to me was going ahead in the stages, using the cutters to get her shapes etc....I had to wait to be told in minute detail (sometimes twice) before I could move onto the next step.
Amazing! I couldn't even draw in 2D what you managed to create. Literally too good to eat!I'm a Forum Ambassador on the housing, mortgages & student money saving boards. I volunteer to help get your forum questions answered and keep the forum running smoothly. Forum Ambassadors are not moderators and don't read every post. If you spot an illegal or inappropriate post then please report it to forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com (it's not part of my role to deal with this). Any views are mine and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.com.0 -
lostinrates wrote: »I think I'm just passing through.
Tbh, fir got a bit cross about the same stuff that annoyed me that I couldn't be bothered to explain here and wasn't that happy about it. Its water under the bridge as far as I am concerned fwiw, and no resentment is held, but it just made it clear that friendships or proclaimed understanding were not sincere or mutual.
I wish everyone who I care for really well and still care for them and wish only the best , but realise that people cannot care for me if they don't know me and what was said made it clear I was not understood, so it all started to feel a little insincere. Tbh, when fir read it, he was more than a bit cross. His feelings really took priority, and the vehemence of them was not insignificant. He also was annoyed by some things that didn't bother me in the least
This is still bookmarked at the top though, so I hit it accidentally sometimes.
We do miss you but respect you for doing what is best for you.I was trying to work out the association between kangaroos and your departing students.
Can kangaroo meat ever be described as fresh if its flown round the world to get to your table?
DD1 is proving to be a real teenage handful already at 11. I blame poor parenting ie me. I will have to up my game.I think....0 -
lostinrates wrote: »I think I'm just passing through.
Tbh, fir got a bit cross about the same stuff that annoyed me that I couldn't be bothered to explain here and wasn't that happy about it. Its water under the bridge as far as I am concerned fwiw, and no resentment is held, but it just made it clear that friendships or proclaimed understanding were not sincere or mutual.
I wish everyone who I care for really well and still care for them and wish only the best , but realise that people cannot care for me if they don't know me and what was said made it clear I was not understood, so it all started to feel a little insincere. Tbh, when fir read it, he was more than a bit cross. His feelings really took priority, and the vehemence of them was not insignificant. He also was annoyed by some things that didn't bother me in the least
This is still bookmarked at the top though, so I hit it accidentally sometimes.
We miss you on here, it is a shame that difference of opinion made you re-evaluate your involvement with the thread. FWIW I think you massively over reacted, they are entitled to their views as much as you are to yours.
It is a bigger shame that what you posted has made lots of regulars feel the need to try and recall if it is what they said that upset you. Would have been nicer for you to just pass through and say hi, rather than dredge up old business.:(I'm a Forum Ambassador on the housing, mortgages & student money saving boards. I volunteer to help get your forum questions answered and keep the forum running smoothly. Forum Ambassadors are not moderators and don't read every post. If you spot an illegal or inappropriate post then please report it to forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com (it's not part of my role to deal with this). Any views are mine and not the official line of MoneySavingExpert.com.0
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