Frump to Fab 2016 - Lets make it AWESOME!!!

lessonlearned

Ah thanks Sugar Baby.

Yes I do always try and look for the silver lining. Just a habit of mine. I think I'm lucky that I was just born a cheerful optimist:rotfl:

Actually, I think you always come over as upbeat and strong too though. I definitely like the way you,have handled "Wayngate":rotfl:

At the risk of sounding all pompous and worthy I feel that I am a fortunate person. I have good health, whilst not rich I have enough money to live on, my boys and those I care about are all fit and well. I count my blessings.

And I know this sounds loopy, a bit "hippy dippy" but I feel that my husband would want me to live a good and happy life. He wouldn't want me to waste my time on bitterness and regret.

I often sense that he is cheering me on and saying "do it girl, go for it". And mum too. I can just picture her giving me a sly wink whenever I do something a bit frivolous or treat myself to something nice. I can hear her saying "why not, you've worked hard all your life, time to enjoy"

My Belgian cousin said the nicest thing when we were there. He said I looked well and happy but he could tell I had suffered. He went on to say it didn't detract from my appearance, it didn't make me ugly but that it added an extra dimension, an inner beauty.

A bit over the top but he is my cousin so I let it pass. Well you know what foreign men are like........:rotfl: I doubt you would get a stiff upper lip Brit sounding so poetic.

Right time for something to eat and then a walk. Very hot and humid here now, not nice at all.

maman

Good to hear some happy news LL. I'm sure you'll have a good time but it seems a very long time to wait. How exciting!
I've been doing some fabbing today. The other week I
stopped for a squirt of Eau Dynamisante in Debenhams and the Clarins lady asked if I'd be interested in a consultation. That was today and I found it very relaxing and informative. I'd made a list of all the skincare products that I've got and they showed me how to use them. They also did a light make up with a fab BB cream but I'm going back next month to learn about the make up side. There's no hard sell and I enjoyed it as much as a facial.
So for the next month I'm going to practise using the products properly.
Good to see you posting legomum.You really seem in the zone. Upwards and onwards!

lessonlearned

What kind of BB cream did they use. I was only thinking the other day I need to rethink my make up soon. I get so pasty in the winter but don't like heavy foundations. I have been using tinted moisturiser but I Would like to try something else, with a bit more "coverage".

Re the holiday ..... Yes it's a long wait but I am going away next May - Baltic cruise.

I don't know if you remember but I also booked a month in Cyprus for February. I have decided it's not for me so I have spoken to the travel agent and for a £50 admin fee they will switch holidays for me. AS long as I use it up before next October I won't lose my deposit. So I have been thinking of a holiday say next September.

So given that I will be having two Holidays next year I think waiting 16 months until my Brazil trip is no real hardship.:rotfl:

Three holidays in 16 months........I'm turning Into a right old pampered princess.

TBH it's still less than the price of a buying a new car........

I worked out that I was spending £2700 a year on running my car (taking depreciation costs into account). Last year I only did 3000 miles. That makes it a very expensive mode of transport.

I am managing surprisingly well without one. I have borrowed my sons car a couple of times, usually for evening Physio visits. I have not tried the local buses yet because I didn't fancy being jolted around with my bad neck. A taxi into town is £4.

My son has just renewed his car insurance. His premium has gone up quite a bit this year so I have helped him out with it. The least I can do if I'm going to be using his car. :rotfl:

I probably won't be posting for a while because my friend arrives tomorrow.

So have a good week and keeeeep fabbing.

maman

That sounds like a good range of holidays LL I'm sure you'll enjoy every one.

It was Clarins own brand BB cream. They had 3 shades but as I've still got a bit of colour I'm going to go back with my pale winter face and see which shade suits me best.
I'd definitely recommend a visit to one of their counters.

sugarbaby125

lessonlearned wrote: »

Ah thanks Sugar Baby.

Yes I do always try and look for the silver lining. Just a habit of mine. I think I'm lucky that I was just born a cheerful optimist:rotfl:

At the risk of sounding all pompous and worthy I feel that I am a fortunate person. I have good health, whilst not rich I have enough money to live on, my boys and those I care about are all fit and well. I count my blessings.

And I know this sounds loopy, a bit "hippy dippy" but I feel that my husband would want me to live a good and happy life. He wouldn't want me to waste my time on bitterness and regret.

I often sense that he is cheering me on and saying "do it girl, go for it". And mum too. I can just picture her giving me a sly wink whenever I do something a bit frivolous or treat myself to something nice. I can hear her saying "why not, you've worked hard all your life, time to enjoy"

My Belgian cousin said the nicest thing when we were there. He said I looked well and happy but he could tell I had suffered. He went on to say it didn't detract from my appearance, it didn't make me ugly but that it added an extra dimension, an inner beauty.

A bit over the top but he is my cousin so I let it pass. Well you know what foreign men are like........:rotfl: I doubt you would get a stiff upper lip Brit sounding so poetic.

What a beautiful multi faceted compliment your Belgian cousin paid you. He is a lovely man.

LL I am much like you in that I am the eternal optimist, no matter what goes wrong in my life, or the lives of my children, grandchildren or extended family, I look for the positive and keep moving forward.

I too feel that my Mum is looking over me, especially when I am having a really good time and I will check in with my Mum whenever I feel the need by just saying 'Hello Mum' aloud to her. Nothing loopy or hippy dippy about our feelings for our loved ones who have died. I am glad that my love for my Mum is ever enduring even though she is no longer alive. I want her to live on in my memories and the memories of my children.

I feel so fortunate because I do not have any financial issues, I have a Housing Association home and I have 4 children and 4 grandchildren. I am employed and I enjoy my job. If I want to treat myself to a theatre ticket or other night out, I can afford to do so. My cup is always refilling and I feel blessed with all I do have, even though I am dealing with health issues, I do not let any of them get in the way of me enjoying my life.

maman

maman wrote: »

It was Clarins own brand BB cream. They had 3 shades but as I've still got a bit of colour I'm going to go back with my pale winter face and see which shade suits me best.
I'd definitely recommend a visit to one of their counters.

I looked it up LL and it's this BB cream.
https://www.clarins.co.uk/bb-skin-detox-fluid-spf-25/C050301034.html
Pricey I know but worth looking into. There are companies selling it cheaper on line and you could probably get a sample.


I've made a bit more effort on skincare this morning. I'm determined to start using the stash of Clarins products I have. They've mainly been accumulated as extras in gift sets. When I buy (or get given) my Eau Dynamisante its often better value to buy a gift set that the EDT on its own so I've acquired lots of other bits 'free' along the way. Today I used toner for the first time in an age.


ellsbel, I don't know if you have a Primark near you but I noticed a very similar pair of silky trousers to mine in there yesterday.
https://www.primark.com/en/product/khaki-drawstring-joggers,R35397112118545
It's the end of the season now and my store only had a dark red but I might still get a pair for £8 as I have to go back into the city tomorrow for my chiropody appointment. What I like is that they're as comfortable as joggers but with the narrow legs and little turn-ups they look a lot smarter on and the fabric is much cooler than the usual jersey stuff of joggers.


I went into Primark hoping to replace my scruffy navy espadrilles. They had some Tom's fakes but they weren't as comfortable so they'll have to wait until next year. I tried some real ones on in Office too and they weren't much better.


It sounds like I had a massive shopping trip yesterday when all I really did was my appointment with Clarins and buy some birthday cards for the numerous family birthdays we have this month. The rest was browsing in passing mainly. There are some nice things around for autumn but some of the fabrics are horrid. I really don't like that stiff, scratchy synthetic stuff. Surprisingly I saw more cotton in Primark than in some of the more expensive places like Warehouse. I worry about the working conditions there but I think they are trying to address that to an extent.


It's muggy but overcast here today. Sorry this post is all a bit me, me, me'. Hope you are all well.:)

Ellsbel

Thanks maman I was considering a trip to Primark actually, to look for some cheap PJ bottoms so I'll try to pop into town in Friday and have a look.
Lovely holiday to look forward to LL, and Sugarbaby; what a lovely, positive post - I'm sure your Mum is very proud of you:)
I went to a concert last night. I plumped for a floaty, silky sleeveless top and slim black jeans. Had a great time and I'm a bit hoarse today:D. I'm also coughing a lot too though and a bit under the weather - I think I might have picked up a cough and cold in the steamy, crowded atmosphere!
Very hot here today - I'm about to reward myself for melting at the ironing board with half an hour in the garden and a bit of a read:)

Ellsbel

Me again!:D
Forgot to say hi to you Legomum and welcome aboard
Have had my hair appointment today. The stylist talked me out of going too much shorter straight away - I think because she's not done my hair before and wanted to get to know it properly first. She took 2/3 inches off and put some long layers in and highlights - it looks much better because it badly needed some attention, but I don't really love it and I'm not sure, in the end, that it WAS worth the £40 extra I spent compared to my usual place:o. Having said that, I think a really good cut shows itself when you try and manage it yourself - so I'll see how it falls when I wash it:)
It wasn't a very relaxing visit - whilst trying to enjoy my "me" time I was being bombarded with texts from my eldest, wanting me to sort a couple of appointments for him! And here's me thinking I can't apply for any admin roles due to no up to date experience - I'm doing PA duties all the time:rotfl::rotfl:
Still not feeling great; I've got a hacking cough and I'm really in need of a good night's sleep. I've not eaten very healthily today either, as tiredness has given me real cravings for sweet stuff:o
Ah well - "tomorrow is another day"!
Headed for the garden again now - pottering out there has given me quite a nice glow:) (not the sweaty kind:D)

Carmen

Good afternoon ladies,
Just popped in to say I am back off my travels and totally exhausted!
I am going to have a leisurely read back on the posts and see if you have been behaving I will post again later.
Carmen x

maman

Good to see you back Carmen.


You're right about your hair ellsbel, it may show in the cut and at least the highlights are done. Personally I'd like longer hair but it's just not thick enough so chin length is about the best I can have. We're never satisfied.;)


I had my feet done today. They'd got into quite a bad way as I've really neglected them since getting back from holiday but now they're all soft and smooth. For some reason I'm meticulous about moisturiser and body lotion but I really have to force myself to cream my feet. Must try harder.:o


I tried on the Primark trousers but they're too short for me. Shame because they were comfortable. At least I tried.:)


I've been quite mse this week in that I've been into the city centre twice this week and although I could have had lunch out both days I chose to come home and eat something healthy. I knew I was getting hungry when I started looking longingly at Greggs!:rotfl:


Any news on the new house yet LL?