Men - how do you behave on a night out with the lads when in a relationship?

Rebel_Cause

LameWolf wrote: »

As a side note, I'm more likely to notice if someone's got a dog with them than if they're attractive!:D

I am exactly the same, I tend to smile at the dog before I smile at the owner! LOL

Jagraf

My husband misses home every time he is out. He likes seeing his friends but I would say he never looks. Neither do I. I don't notice anyone except the people I am out with.

We met later in life (me after a divorce and him after lots if relationships) we were both in out thirties and other attractive people just become tiresome and its of no interest.

Jagraf

Rebel_Cause wrote: »

I am exactly the same, I tend to smile at the dog before I smile at the owner! LOL

Now that I understand. My husband is constantly talking to dogs!

System

Temptation isn't a pleasant thing and a wise man will try to avoid it and avoid thinking that way, even for their own sake

Besides 1 woman is enough, otherwise wed never get PlayStation or eggsbox time

VfM4meplse

I was out with my mum earlier and couldn't help but notice a super-attractive man. Had she not been there I would definitely have chatted him up.

Is that wrong?

janninew

Just wondered as I read this thread, has any females other (male) half ever pointed out another attractive male and said 'cor look at the ar3e on him?!' All seems quite one sided, almost a given that men will leer over women (with the partners joining in!) but women aren't expected to leer at men. Just an observation!

20aday

Although I've been single nearly four years now in previous relationships I have clocked people I thought looked 'nice/attractive' and there's nothing wrong in that. As someone else previously mentioned: "You can go window shopping without any money".

Leering over somebody and making suggestive remarks in the vain hope you'll get your leg over for the night (if you last that long!) when you've got a respective partner at home? Bang out of order!

Fortunately for the greater good of the general public no one ever chats me up so I'm doing people a favour as they won't have the misfortune of dating me, haha.

pickledonionspaceraider

Newlyboughthouse wrote: »

Not sure why it matters, but I'm 29, thanks for asking.

I thought it was the post of a teenaged girl

You appear to be crawling with insecurities, and looking to create a bit of a drama = the type of behaviours a 15 year old may display

It also might be worth considering that, contrary to your apparent belief, not every man on the planet is after getting in your pants, just because he happens to glance in your direction

dirty_magic

I'm quite often the only female in a group of lads and they all look when we're out! I've never seen any of them act on it through.

My OH definitely looks, I can tell but he doesn't know he's making it obvious. He wouldn't say anything in front of me though.

I don't think there's anything wrong with looking, everyone can appreciate attractiveness in men and women! As long as they're not disrespectful about it I don't think it's an issue.

Alias_Omega

Go out? Sod that...its too £££ and I don't like being sick in the morning.

I prefer to wake up and attend my local parkrun (5k run). Even NYD, I've entered a 10k race. That's more fun than drinking... #yuck!


On Topic - I would not worry about it, unless there is something in the past that has happened, then this could be the cause to your worries...