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Wife cheating, just about to buy a house

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  • Dan-Dan
    Dan-Dan Posts: 5,279 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    you wouldn't want to see it. When we bought the house we are now in, it came with mirrored wardrobes and mirrored tiled ceiling. I took them down a week later.

    Ahhh , your a prude and she`s a wild cat , explains everything
    Never, under any circumstances, take a sleeping pill and a laxative on the same night.
  • KRB2725
    KRB2725 Posts: 685 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture
    2 things don't make sense

    1) If blokey went home minus his undercrackers, would he not alert your wife to the fact that they were lurking in your bedroom, thus giving her the opportunity to remove them?

    2) You are a man doing Christmas shopping in November?
  • Anyway, back to work, but thanks for your advice and support. It does help to have a sense check and i'll keep you updated next week hopefully. I am just now sure how to put on a happy face this weekend. We are supposed to be going out for dinner with friends later.
  • now you got me thinking.

    Up until Christmas she had let herself go a little but after I caught her out at Christmas she has made more of an effort in keeping her weight down and she does dress a bit better.

    I daren't speak to my family about this yet and our friends are 'joint' friends, so I am pretty much alone in my thoughts.

    Yes she is definitely having it away with people in her office. Probably more than one.
  • Guest101
    Guest101 Posts: 15,764 Forumite
    We live on the end of a cul de sac where it meets the main road so I could just drive by and see the house and driveway. Also, I know what cars belong to whom in the road so I should be able to spot an unknown car.


    What if they think they've been rumbled and cancel?
    Or he gets a taxi? Or they've split up? Or he's ill? Or....


    Christ it proves nothing. You'll drive yourself mad


    (well you would if any of this was real)
  • emmatthews wrote: »
    2 things don't make sense

    1) If blokey went home minus his undercrackers, would he not alert your wife to the fact that they were lurking in your bedroom, thus giving her the opportunity to remove them?

    2) You are a man doing Christmas shopping in November?

    1) This is why it doesnt make sense.
    2) Yes, why not. Amazon have some great lightning deals on. I bought her a Vaporella Steam Iron for £35 when it's £99 in John Lewis.
  • Guest101
    Guest101 Posts: 15,764 Forumite
    Yes she is definitely having it away with people in her office. Probably more than one.


    There's definitely an imaginary orgy happening, right now.


    And it's not an office she works in, but a dungeon.


    And she's blown the inheritance on 'props'


    I dread to ask ages in this hypothetical scenario (is this that Daily Mail chap looking for his next story?)
  • 1) This is why it doesnt make sense.
    2) Yes, why not. Amazon have some great lightning deals on. I bought her a Vaporella Steam Iron for £35 when it's £99 in John Lewis.

    now I know she is having it away.......you bought her an iron for christmas...christ!!
  • Guest101 wrote: »
    What if they think they've been rumbled and cancel?
    Or he gets a taxi? Or they've split up? Or he's ill? Or....


    Christ it proves nothing. You'll drive yourself mad


    (well you would if any of this was real)

    because we get home roughly the same time each night (except when she is working late) and weekends we normally spend together, except when either of us nips into town for banking, hair, nails etc.

    Wednesday's have to be the only opportunity.
  • Dan-Dan
    Dan-Dan Posts: 5,279 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Combo Breaker
    Anyway, back to work, but thanks for your advice and support. It does help to have a sense check and i'll keep you updated next week hopefully. I am just now sure how to put on a happy face this weekend. We are supposed to be going out for dinner with friends later.

    Rearange this sentence


    keys , put , ashtray , we , shall ,the , in
    Never, under any circumstances, take a sleeping pill and a laxative on the same night.
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