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Wife cheating, just about to buy a house

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  • nearlysingle
    nearlysingle Posts: 34 Forumite
    It was her father who died. She didn't get on with him as he cheated on her mother and her and her mum was left to pick up the pieces. The inheritance was a surprise as he was married to his second wife and we just assumed she would be left everything.
  • Dird
    Dird Posts: 2,703 Forumite
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    edited 20 November 2015 at 1:49PM
    As Chris Brown would say, these hoes ain't loyal. I'd buy the house...you'll probably get a larger share than currently.

    Assuming she's in a junior role then she's probably contributed less towards living costs and can't play the "taking care of kids" card. If you did it now they might say split the current house (25% of assets) 50-50?

    After the new house maybe you can convince to a MFF then dump her right after
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  • nearlysingle
    nearlysingle Posts: 34 Forumite
    alistairstubbs wrote: »
    I'm waiting for the "Bag for Life"

    whats a reinforced carrier bag got to do with my marriage?
  • booksurr
    booksurr Posts: 3,700 Forumite
    edited 20 November 2015 at 3:45PM
    nearlysingle wrote: »
    I do feel very hurt and betrayed and at the same time very angry.
    no, you are seeing an opportunity to be a gold digger whilst at the same time showing yourself to be a doormat that has repeatedly been wiped on

    decide what matters: money or self respect (or are you being paid to spam?)
  • marksoton
    marksoton Posts: 17,516 Forumite
    Oh this ones going to run and run i sense...
  • nearlysingle
    nearlysingle Posts: 34 Forumite
    cjdavies wrote: »
    This is just a guess but part % only, do the documents state what %?

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    I haven't read anything on the documents that suggest anything other than 50/50.
  • Marvel1
    Marvel1 Posts: 7,462 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper
    nearlysingle wrote: »
    I haven't read anything on the documents that suggest anything other than 50/50.

    Again just guessing and assuming :D
  • nearlysingle
    nearlysingle Posts: 34 Forumite
    booksurr wrote: »
    no, you are seeing an opportunity to be a gold digger whilst at the same time showing yourself to be a doormat that has repeatedly been wiped on

    decide what matters: money or self respect

    I do earn more and I have kept up our lifestyle. She works for her pocket money which has been fine up until now. What I am very angry about is that I am working hard all day and she is at home gathering designer undergarments.

    Sorry for the vent by the way, I am just confused. 10% of me says there is an innocent explanation but how can there be?
  • thesaint
    thesaint Posts: 4,324 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture Combo Breaker
    Pretend to go out next Wednesday, but instead hide under the bed.

    I must say I would notice if I didn't put my boxers on after a afternoon session with someone else's wife.
    Well life is harsh, hug me don't reject me.
  • Johnnytwostep
    Johnnytwostep Posts: 854 Forumite
    nearlysingle wrote: »
    I do earn more and I have kept up our lifestyle. She works for her pocket money which has been fine up until now. What I am very angry about is that I am working hard all day and she is at home gathering designer undergarments.

    Sorry for the vent by the way, I am just confused. 10% of me says there is an innocent explanation but how can there be?

    not just that she is gathering
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