Wife cheating, just about to buy a house

nearlysingle

Dird wrote: »

Why? Nowadays we have small video cameras...send me a copy of any evidence please

you wouldn't want to see it. When we bought the house we are now in, it came with mirrored wardrobes and mirrored tiled ceiling. I took them down a week later.

alistairstubbs

nearlysingle wrote: »

We don't have children as she doesn't want them. The only other joint asset is the odog which she is more than welcome to.

It's not a great dane by any chance?

nearlysingle

I will book next Wednesday off as holiday and keep check on the house.

Johnnytwostep

a bet she is a 'large' lady

Guest101

Here's a funny idea, you could just ask her?


Just say.


I was putting a few bits under the bed and found these. It got me thinking about all the late night's your doing recently. Is there something wrong?

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How exactly did you establish that the boxers were worn?

moneyistooshorttomention

Without knowing for sure and certain whether she is having an affair or no - then its difficult to decide exactly what to do I would have thought.

Personally - with this being a second incident (to your knowledge) and the doing unpaid overtime (in a non-career type job) my suspicions would certainly be raised.

But - I would be trying to establish, one way or another, what is happening? Yep...I would check their phone/emails/etc. Yep - I would, if need be, consider hiring a private detective if I couldn't find out for myself.

I just wouldn't want all the hassle of purchasing etc a house with someone else unless I was sure we would be living in it together for the foreseeable future. Why add selling a house into all the grief/hassle of a possible divorce anyway unnecessarily. Divorces carry quite enough grief/hassle anyway - without asking for any more of it.

Guest101

nearlysingle wrote: »

I will book next Wednesday off as holiday and keep check on the house.

So you're going to sit in your car for 10 hours?


Lots of trust in this relationship. I sense it will go far...

nearlysingle

Johnnytwostep wrote: »

a bet she is a 'large' lady

now you got me thinking.

Up until Christmas she had let herself go a little but after I caught her out at Christmas she has made more of an effort in keeping her weight down and she does dress a bit better.

I daren't speak to my family about this yet and our friends are 'joint' friends, so I am pretty much alone in my thoughts.

nearlysingle

Guest101 wrote: »

So you're going to sit in your car for 10 hours?


Lots of trust in this relationship. I sense it will go far...

We live on the end of a cul de sac where it meets the main road so I could just drive by and see the house and driveway. Also, I know what cars belong to whom in the road so I should be able to spot an unknown car.