Wife cheating, just about to buy a house

nearlysingle · 20 November 2015 at 9:05PM

Well it was an interesting evening and I notice a few things that I hadn't before, also think the paranoia is setting in now.

We met our friends and we decided to have a sit down meal at Nando's. So whilst us men did the hunter gatherer thing at the Coke fountain, I glanced back and noticed my wife texting.

Then after coming back to the table, she then waited a couple of minutes and went to the loo with her handbag. Now I know it isn't handbag time of he month so I can only assume she made a call or sent a text.

I was hoping when we came back to have a sneaky look at her phone but she has decided to go upstairs and watch goggle box so I am sat here nearly in tears.

I don't know what to do.

chuckley · 20 November 2015 at 9:19PM

ok having read through this whole thing. you just need to confront her and go your separate ways.

If you become financially tied with a mortgage, you'll lose in the long run.

Villarkita · 20 November 2015 at 9:23PM

To be honest OP I think they want you to say something! The pants were obviously left there for a reason, its not like you would forget to put them on or forget to tell her to hide them.

150940 · 20 November 2015 at 9:36PM

nearlysingle wrote: »

Well it was an interesting evening and I notice a few things that I hadn't before, also think the paranoia is setting in now.

We met our friends and we decided to have a sit down meal at Nando's. So whilst us men did the hunter gatherer thing at the Coke fountain, I glanced back and noticed my wife texting.

Then after coming back to the table, she then waited a couple of minutes and went to the loo with her handbag. Now I know it isn't handbag time of he month so I can only assume she made a call or sent a text.

I was hoping when we came back to have a sneaky look at her phone but she has decided to go upstairs and watch goggle box so I am sat here nearly in tears.

I don't know what to do.

Go have it out with her, she up there texting.

Is your wife a larger lady or maybe the pants are another ladies. :kisses3:

Mojisola · 20 November 2015 at 9:39PM

nearlysingle wrote: »

I don't know what to do.

Talk to her.

misspickle_2 · 20 November 2015 at 9:48PM

You gotta be kidding me

He's got ME on a plate and he is still worrying about this good for nothing girly.
Cut her loose. She won't make you happy!
Bin her.

150940 · 20 November 2015 at 9:50PM

misspickle wrote: »

You gotta be kidding me
He's got ME on a plate and he is still worrying about this good for nothing girly.
Cut her loose. She won't make you happy!
Bin her.

Maybe he thinks you're playing hard to get.

PM him and drop it on his toes.

misspickle_2 · 20 November 2015 at 10:14PM

150940 wrote: »

Maybe he thinks you're playing hard to get.

PM him and drop it on his toes.

I don't do chasing

Its not classy.

You gotta go slow see

watch and learn

selloptape · 20 November 2015 at 11:07PM

An fake iron for Chrimbo and a fake date in Nandos... Poor Mrs NearlySingle

Winter_Phoenix · 20 November 2015 at 11:08PM

This poor, poor woman. She obviously likes dressing up in men's underwear, and has been doing this in private for years. Now the moment has arrived for her to be honest with her husband, Iron John (or possibly Ironing John, or even Ironic John). Unable to find the words to tell him of her secret prediliction, she leaves a poignant hint where she knows he will find it. Alas, he misunderstands completely...