Wife cheating, just about to buy a house

misspickle_2

moneyistooshorttomention wrote: »

That makes you in the age group where younger men eye you up hopefully - having heard all about "Mrs Robertson" and "best tune played on an old(er) fiddle" and hope to expand their education with you ....ahem;)

.....assuming you're still "in good shape".

I'm in great shape cough cough
Did aqua class Tuesday. Nearly killed me.
Power walk/ run last night
Zumba next week. If you don't hear from me again...

misspickle_2

nearlysingle wrote: »

Thank you for your replies. I think the thread is going off track, my fault I guess for trying to reply to everyone's replies in gratitude.

Back to the main question, if the house share is 50/50 in the new home and if the marriage breaks down, will the judge take into account the fact I have supported her for many years and given her things which now counts as her assets when apportioning the equity in the home?

Yes he will.
You'd need plenty of proof though.

Hope this helps :rotfl:

densol_2

Her cheating will have no effect on the seperation of assets. It only becomes relevant if its exceptional ( ie an ex subject to domestic violence by the other and injured and unable to work etc )

misspickle_2

Proof as in your financial contribution I meant.
Nobody gives a monkeys legally who or what she's been doing. She has every right legally to knob every bloke from here to kingdom come.

misspickle_2

Most marriages are a business nowadays.

My advice would be exactly the same as I'd give to someone who was thinking of gambling.

Never risk what you can't afford to lose

I've been single ten years

Haven't got a pot to pee in but thats besides the point :cool:

booksurr

Andypandyboy wrote: »

Is it?

I thought it was national "slap an irritating co worker day" that was what was doing the rounds at work this morning:rotfl:

Push Off Early Tomorrow's Saturday, ie the behavior of civil servants and other under employed Friday "workers" - I note OP started this thread on a Friday afternoon.....

fierystormcloud

Is it half term? :rotfl:

Linda_D_2

thesaint wrote: »

Pretend to go out next Wednesday, but instead hide under the bed.

That is the best advice, you'll get to hear all the erotic action, and with a bit of luck, you might get to join in.

This is the hottest thread I've read for a while:D

150940

nearlysingle wrote: »

at the time we were going through a phase of sleeping in separate rooms and generlaly not speaking. I was trying to bridge the gap by dropping her off and picking her up from the Xmas do.

What I hadn't expected was seeing her on the smoking bench near the venue entrance with some bit of rough.

Why not tell her to get a room and stay over? That way she can get smashed and there's no arguing after if you don't know about it.

robatwork

I suggest this thread stays top of this forum until about 2017.