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Husband of 40 years admitted he cross dresses

Hi, (lighthearted thread)

What would you do if your husband pulled a 'Les Coker'? (Eastenders current story line)
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  • Hi, (lighthearted thread)

    What would you do if your husband pulled a 'Les Coker'? (Eastenders current story line)




    I wouldnt know which way to turn:rotfl::rotfl:
  • Maybe run for the hills ..................... :D
  • I don't watch Eastenders, so have no idea how this has played out. Also, being male and straight I'm not going to have a husband any time ever!

    Spouses should be supportive of each other. Not sure what else there is.
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    Wouldn't bother me, as long as he didn't pinch my clothes!

    When I met my husband, he used to look in the womenswear section of clothes, as well as menswear, and he wore make up. (We're old goths, so alternative clothing is normal to us!)
  • Goldiegirl
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    I have no idea what a Les Coker is, as I don't watch Eastenders.

    But I assume he's a man who's been married 40 years and has been cross dressing.

    Well, it'd be a shock...... But he'd still be the same person I've been married to for 40 years, so I'd like to think it wouldn't make any difference once I got used to the situation.
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    Is this what whole secret with Claudette was? I'm a few weeks' behind. I just don't get how something like that can be kept a secret, but then I suppose people hide affairs.
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    Hi, (lighthearted thread)

    What would you do if your husband pulled a 'Les Coker'? (Eastenders current story line)
    What would I do?
    I'd post on The Arms board as they seem to ask inane questions like 'what was the last thing you ate' type of questions on there.
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    What would you do if your husband pulled a 'Les Coker'? (Eastenders current story line)

    I'd fly to the moon and back.
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  • lulu_92
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    I'd always support them, no matter what.

    This Eastenders storyline, is it purely cross-dressing? Or is it about a man wanting to become a woman?
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  • I dont watch Eastenders
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