Here we can all be heard for a little while. Part 2

calleyw

mellymoo74 wrote: »

Calley you can take a short term role see how you cope?
Less time to think if your out plus forced to spend time with people

I only do short term agency anyway. Most have done at one place is about 6 weeks.

I was hoping to get in to temp to perm a long time ago.

I might talk to my contact at the agency as they are lovely.

Yours

Calley

mellymoo74

calleyw wrote: »

Melly,

I know I have said this before I am so sorry that you and your husband are going through this.

Will you do me a massive favor and try and get a smoothie down you today. You need to keep yourself in as good as shape as possible to deal with this.

Are you able to record stuff on your phone? Either video or audio? As every time you enter and leave your property set the phone to record. Just an idea and might a really carp and silly one.

Please take care.

Yours

Calley

Not carp at all Calley I'm going to start doing that. Thank you.
Will try part of the problem is the amount of walking g I'm doing (22 miles average a day last week)

mellymoo74

Think of it as a try before you buy Calley and it's a good idea to talk to the agency.

Right I think I'm going to weigh myself see how bad it is

calleyw

mellymoo74 wrote: »

Think of it as a try before you buy Calley and it's a good idea to talk to the agency.

What I say about agency work is

1) you don't get dragged in office politics
2) if you make a mistake you are long gone before they find it
3) If you don't like it you can leave at any time


:rotfl:

Yours

Calley

mellymoo74

Exactly!

Right its bad so am now panicking a bit

Georgiegirl256

Delete your ex's number Calley. It seems like it's just a repetitive cycle that won't be broken as long as you have his number and you can both contact each other.

If he's serious about seeing a solicitor, then for all you know, he could be making a log of each text and each phone call you make. When he says he never wants to hear from you again, take him at his word and block him.

Georgiegirl256

Melly Hun, I know it's easy for us to say, but please can you try and eat something? Even just a little bit, small and often? Also, 22 miles a day?!! :eek: Where on earth are you walking to?

Sad news about the man Lovely of you to take round some rose cuttings and for being there for his wife

mellymoo74

Had a nice email from hse director through linkedin saying I'm doing a great job and to keep doing it the way I am so that's one nice thing in this pile of poop

Georgiegirl256

Hope you manage to get a good rest Pyxis, sounds like you need it!

Is it your birthday today MU? If so, HAPPY BIRTHDAY!! :bdaycake: Hope you have a brilliant day!

mellymoo74

It's walking round the production area Georgie plus dogs plus walking there and back. I downloaded my vivofit data and yep average of 22 miles so really should be eating more not less.

She's devastated I spent about an hour with her last night just giving her a hug while she cried.
OH is a bit concerned about my going over cos of spreading myself to thin but he gets why I am

ETA she came to me because she put him in a hospice and feels guilty one of the kids is giving her grief because he didn't die at home and she needed someone to tell her what she did was ok and just some support. She is a lovely woman and she will need support because he's been her whole life do 14 years