Here we can all be heard for a little while. Part 2

mellymoo74

Tell police baby when you speak to him about that West mods police are a bit !!!!

whitewing

tea,

I think you are just feeling fragile. You are completely right to be logging everything.

Sometimes the call handlers can unwittingly give the impression that you are wasting their time, but it is just their inexperience or jadedness (depending). Have to say that the majority of the time our 101 handlers are brilliant and thank us for calling, even if it just cows on the road or something!

pollyanna_26

TEA - Is your job full time ? I would be tempted to go to the police station myself if it were possible . Mon to friday would be best if you can do it . This situation has gone too far and after all the reporting and logging they need to get a grip and act . You need to be able to speak to someone with the power to act . If you work full time can your phone in your lunchbreak and ask to speak to someone further up the chain ?

Good idea Welly .
polly

tea_lover

Very, very full-time. Plus stupid commute.

Pretty much everyone else I've spoken to has been great but this one really wasn't. Asked if I was immediately threatened (er no, that's why I called 101 not 999), then just said they'd follow it up next week. I said I'd already been waiting a week to hear anything and there have been other things reported in that time and she grudgingly said someone would call me.

mellymoo74

When I called the none emergency number because upstairs had called me a white !!!!! and was throwing stuff around they told me they don't come out for names lol.

Right
This was another assessment she was also going to look at what happened to OHS service as that majorly impacts on me.
Instead we went over and over my food relationship
Became obsessed with whether I count calories then said as the fat thing isn't a big deal I'm not anorexic probably
Then asked why I do it, when told I wouldn't tell her asked again, then closed meeting and said they would.let me know ow if they would help

Oh if they will I will need to do weekly weigh ins so that will be a no

whitewing

Maybe they have notes on the system that any matters that are non-urgent relating to you tea absolutely MUST be referred to police baby.

Sometimes people get awkward in situations like that where they are not permitted to tell you things themselves.

That sounds good to me.

tea_lover

Well that sounds spectacularly unhelpful melly!

whitewing

melly, would you need to know what your weigh in amounts are?

Or do they just need to do it as a monitor to make sure you don't lose even more weight during their intervention or as a measure that you were getting better?

You could maybe have weekly weigh ins.

mellymoo74

It was a big deal for me to go and ask as well tea.

So are you taking laxatives
Do you purge
Do you feel fat
Are you worried about calories

I know let's go on and on that will help

mellymoo74

I couldn't ww getting on at the docs the once was enough

I would also need to see gp weekly