Here we can all be heard for a little while. Part 2

calleyw

tea_lover wrote: »

Am still in two minds about whether I should actually try and speak to FOH, which I realise sounds ridiculous beyond words considering what's happened but I can't shake the feeling that I need to. Maybe once the dust has settled a bit I could - or am I now not allowed to? Maybe I only want to because I'm not allowed to.

Tea, please don't contact him ever. He will take that as a green light and then back to square one.

You are not responsible for his behavior and you know you are way to good him.

Leave it well alone and start to look forwards not backwards.

Yours

Calley

Pyxis

tea_lover wrote: »

So sorry to hear that georgie xx.

Birdie - how fast were you spinning??

Police baby just called to see how things were. As it's been quiet they're probably going to go ahead with the caution. Tbh I'd be happy with them not even bothering with that if the contact actually stopped but I guess as I've got in touch with them so much they have to do something now!

Even police baby sounds hot on the phone - I need a date, quickly! :rotfl:

Am still in two minds about whether I should actually try and speak to FOH, which I realise sounds ridiculous beyond words considering what's happened but I can't shake the feeling that I need to. Maybe once the dust has settled a bit I could - or am I now not allowed to? Maybe I only want to because I'm not allowed to.

Tea, I don't know much about these things, but I think it if you did, it. would seriously jeopardise your case if the whole thing were to blow up again.
Is there a stalking victim person you could ask? I'm sure you're not the first to feel like this.

But I really, really wouldn't talk to him for quite a while anyway. That would be like giving him a green light. However, a stalking victim person would know better than I.
:A

Izadora

tea_lover wrote: »

Am still in two minds about whether I should actually try and speak to FOH

Step away from the phone!!
I know that you can't help the fact that you're always going to care/worry about him but you won't be doing either of you any favours if you get in touch.

No matter how harsh it feels now, the only way he's got a chance to move on is if you stick to having no contact.

Torry_Quine

Georgie that's very sad penguin my uncle had a heart attack when driving and crashed the car and died. They said if he hadn't been driving he may have survived. He had been retired less than a month. end penguin

Pyxis

Thinking about it, Tea, presumably he said everything he wanted to say in the 14-page letter.
What good would actually talking to him do, then?
What would you want it say to him?

As the others have said, please don't. And do please talk to someone who knows about these things, as they will understand all these conflicting emotions you're going through.




(((((((((Georgie ))))))))))

((((((((((Torry)))))))))))




Ps. Have been to the loo, made a cup of tea, even toasted some Hot X Buns which you can't leave for a second without them burning, all to tempt fate, but still not come to collect the music centre.

Pyxis

Yum!
Yesterday, I popped into M&S to see if they had my favourite beer. They didn't, but I still came out with a bag of goodies! Aaargh! Among which were these Hot X Buns, a pack of ones with ginger pieces, and a pack of ones with berries in.
The berry ones were ok, but the ginger ones.......YUM! Just eaten the last two.

I wonder if I should get in the shower? They'll come then, won't they?

tea_lover

Hey, you're all right... as ever Right, Friday night housework awaits, see you in a couple of hours.

Georgiegirl256

So sorry to hear that Torry, that's really sad

Tea, definitely don't contact him.

I like ginger, I like fruit, and I like buns, but for some reason I don't like Hot Cross Buns. My Mam gets them from M&S and says they're lovely. Don't know if she's tried other flavours but the original? Will have to recommend them to her.

Torry_Quine

Georgiegirl256 wrote: »

So sorry to hear that Torry, that's really sad

Tea, definitely don't contact him.
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Yes it was really hard at the time.


I agree with the others you really musn't contact him Tea

Pyxis

Have now got the TV on mute.
Keep leaping up to look out of window if I hear a vehicle outside.
Apparently the firm is Easylife, operating under the auspices of the Radio Times shop.