Here we can all be heard for a little while. Part 2

mellymoo74

!!!! features is channeling his mum again.
Fairly sure I'm going to kill him

elsien

What's he doing, and can you avoid him?
Probably best not to kill anyone unless they're well insured in your favour.

mellymoo74

His usual he's decided I have taken the wrong lead to former employer so
It's been done on purpose
Etc etc etc

The fact I haven't doesn't matter he us having a paddy
His mum used to do this to him so you'd think he's realise it's nasty but no

elsien

I suppose it's easier to fall back on childhood patterns and takes a bit of effort and recognition to change the defaults.
Not fair on you though if he's using you as an emotional punchbag, even if he is upset. Just wish there was something we could do to help make life a bit easier for you at the moment.

System

onomatopoeia99 wrote: »

"lush"? That'll be the Bristolians then, especially if it's "gert lush".

I spent yesterday evening completely failing to write a profile on pof, even missed the snooker. One of my friends told me years ago that "you have to sell yourself". I couldn't sell water to a thirsty person in a desert, so that's not going to go well

I'll have another go at the weekend.

Have you got any friends who might be willing to help? : My best friend had been single for about 6 years when he came to me and said he was considering online dating. I, of course took that as an invitation to get him round and get him a profile set up. Withing a couple of weeks he met his now lovely gf (she was lovely anyway, i meant more now girlfriend) and a year and a half on they are living together with a beautiful baby boy (and he wants to marry her). I'm a good wingwoman aren' i?

System

Waves_and_Smiles wrote: »

Alan Rickman was one of my crushes, he was my american friend's crush too and we used to watch his films together. We are both very upset today.

The broken water pipe upstairs is a work in progress there has been much hammering and drilling from the flat above. Now we just need to dry things out.

I'm sad.

I'm sad too WaS

he was a bloody wonderful actor, obviously for many he was know for playing Severus Snape, and Hans Gruber , but i remember him in Dogma , Robin Hood:Prince of Thieves and Galaxy Quest (wonderful film WaS, you should see it if you haven;t already) too. He was amazing and will be deeply missed. (not your fault as others have already said but saying again, just so you remember). I also had a bit of an old man crush on him tbh!

System

jobbingmusician wrote: »

Another gitdog fan here.

Very pleased, because I did remember to weigh myself today, but not until after I'd had coffee and a pain chocolat (my special treat for post-fast days). I expected to be well over 80kg post Xmas, but came up at 77.7

And Mr JM said I shouldn't lose any more weight cos it will make me look scraggy - he gives the BEST compliments! :rotfl:

Compliments are the best

Lol Swain told me i can lose as much weight as i want to, but please can i do squats so i retain "the booty" :eek: :rotfl:

Flybaby

Moo - ~squish~ If you are going to, take out life insurance on him first;)


Thanks Code - but Pepperberries aren't ...ahem....big enough:o.

Flybaby

MU - Dogma is a cracking film and he was hilarious in that.
Swain sounds so lovely.

System

Flybaby wrote: »

MU - Dogma is a cracking film and he was hilarious in that.
Swain sounds so lovely.

I've not watched in in years but Rickman was bloody marvelous in it i watched a clip of it today and it made me laugh.

Swain is awesome (still working on cloning him ). I'm still pinching myself nearly a year on to make sure i'm not just dreaming. I;ve alays been jealous of friends and the like who;ve met the oerfect person for them. I always wondered what that would be like (and always known my past relationships would never work). Never thought i'd actually experience it though I actually feel like i get it now.