Here we can all be heard for a little while. Part 2

mellymoo74

Nope the courses that were booked were happening next month.........
small panic is allowed I think just need to make sure it isnt a large panic.
May have just posted about a company that has been done by the HSE for falsifying RIDDOR information

elsien

Small wobbles are ok. And perfectly normal in the circumstances.
Just bear in mind that as you rent, you should be entitled to HB which is one of the advantages of renting over home ownership when things go temporarily pear shaped. If it comes to that. Which it won't.

Georgiegirl256

Hugs (((Melly))) Sorry you've got this added stress right now x

Sounds lovely Pyxis Hope you have a brilliant time!

Can you spot the Panda? http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-3370038/Can-spot-panda-Mind-bending-festive-puzzle-leaves-thousands-people-bewildered-sweeps-Facebook.html Thousand bewildered though? Really?

jobbingmusician

Too easy. All you have to do is to work out what (not) to look for! (I'll explain further later if people don't get it)

Been out all day, in bed now, squishes to all - I've only skim read the last few pages. melly - ET for whistleblowing I think. Maybe post on the employment board?

disabled_NCIS_fan

How do people miss the panda?! It's obvious, well to me it is. It's not like its where's wally, which is hard lol.

System

I'm a but late in replying

Tea, honestly, you did what was best. You had no choice. And you know something, i am incredibly proud of you. You did something that a few years ago, i was unable to do. With the twatty ex, god i wish i'd had the courage you've had to end things. I couldn't do it, even though he treated me like crap, but YOU have done it and you should know that's an incredibly hard but positive step. Someone once told me "no man is worth your tears, and the one who is won't make you cry" (ok i could pick holes in that but anyay), what i'm trying to say is i know its upsetting you, but you're right in thinking he's not worth you getting upset over. Personally i wouldn't shed another tear for the !!!!. He;s not worth it. You are still grieving, but as i think i said when it first happened, are you grieving over the loss f the relationship you actually had? Or the relationship you wish you'd had? Yes he's acting like he cares now he knows he;s lost you, but where was all of this hen he actually had a chance to make things right? He didn;t care enough to try then and he;s only turning on the emotions now cos he realises what he's lost. And he has NO-ONE to blame but himself. You gave him chance after chance, and he didn't do anything. Right now, as hard as it is you are NOT responsible for his actions. he has two choices. Man up, accepot its over and leave you alone, or he can continue to be an idiot and feel the full force of the law. he;s made a rod for his own back and you did the right thing in reporting him, you were scared and worried about your safety and again you've shown remarkable courage in going to the police. {{{{{squishes}}}}

Tea, i'm so sorry about the job, but i hope that a new job and a fresh start is much better for you. It sounds like they were horrible to work for anyway and you did the right thing in reporting what you've seen. {{{{squishes}}}}

Torry_Quine

I have been lurking here and you all seem friendly so here I am.

This time of year really gets do me as everyone seems really busy and has lots of things to do while I am at home tired and sore. My problem is long standing ME and it is getting me down.

Pyxis

23rd December


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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=ZqcVYU8zqS0

Pyxis

Georgiegirl256 wrote: »

Hugs (((Melly)))

Can you spot the Panda? http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-3370038/Can-spot-panda-Mind-bending-festive-puzzle-leaves-thousands-people-bewildered-sweeps-Facebook.html Thousand bewildered though? Really?

Bit strange that it has thousands bewildered!! Not hard! It was harder seeing the owl camouflaged against the tree! And that wasn't that hard!

Torry_Quine wrote: »

I have been lurking here and you all seem friendly so here I am.

This time of year really gets do me as everyone seems really busy and has lots of things to do while I am at home tired and sore. My problem is long standing ME and it is getting me down.

Hello, Torry Quine! Welcome t'thread!

I know how you feel with the ME. I had a similar post-viral syndrome for about 6years a long while back, and though I am over it, I still have to pace myself else I get tired to the point of almost feeling ill.

Hop into the duvet fort and have a squishy rest! Lots of massage cushions and invigorating scents in there!




By the way, I don't know what time my posts are showing in the UK now, but Greece is two hours ahead of GMT, so it might look like I'm up in the wee small hours when I'm not!

Wellyboots6

Catching up again so sorry if I miss you!

Welcome Torry!
Hi zippy!

Tea, you have done what you can to be gentle to him in getting him to understand its over. It's now down to him how he handles that. He has people around him to support him, that job is no longer yours. You have a far more important job now, looking after yourself and moving on!

Melly you will be fine. You are building up a very good reputation in your area of work so will find something soon. If it takes time you can ring people you pay bills to and ask to defer for a month.

Have a lovely time Pyxis!

Code and WW I hope your day is not too stressful today.

Hi MU, NCIS, Georgie, Flybaby, Calley Faerie!!

Hope you have a sparkly day WaS!

And hello to those who I have forgotten unintentionally!!!